i'm dating an 18 year old and im 15 . we have sex but is that all he wants? should i believe him when he says he loves me and cares about me and he doesnt even have to have sex.?
(weve been together since june)
2007-01-09 05:06:33 · 31 answers · asked by Brittany K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't believe , how can than anything come of it , you have to have trust . even if you let down, at least you will know you gave it your all. and you can than live with yourself.
2007-01-09 05:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats terrible, I would get out of this so called relationship very fast. For some girls dating an older guy is the cool thing to do, but you have to look at this. This guy is 18, legal age and he is not only dating but having sex with a 15 year old. That is really bad, and could and should get his @$$ thrown in jail. Besides this guy must not be much and probobly cant get a girl his own age if he is trying to pick up 15 year old kids. Sick.
2007-01-09 05:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just wants sex and he will want it all the time and he will even tell you lies, such as "I love You" just to get down your pants. Almost all guys are like that at 18 and don't let them tell you otherwise. Heck, most guys are like that until there 50! Also, are you a little young to be putt'n out? Why the age difference too? That just gives him even more of a free ticket to screw you over. Not a good idea. I'd dump him or give him an ultimatum and tell him no nooky. If he stays, then he might be ok, if he goes, then you know what he was after. Simple as that. Good luck to you.
2007-01-09 05:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship did you have before you had sex if you had a good relationship before you started having sex you can have one with sex. Are you just giving into him everytime he asks or do you say no when you don't want to. If you think you are mature enough to have sex you need to be mature enough to talk to him about this. He is the one you are having sex with not us.
These other posters are ridiculous why should an 18 year old BOY be sent to jail for having sex with one of his peers. Would you want your 18 year old son sent to jail for having sex, not raping a girl who would be 16 and legal in just a few months. Society is obessesed with keeping girls pure. Anyone who would have an 18 yr old boy arrested for having sex with their daughter is just upset to find out she is having sex. Let's say he had sex with her and dumped her, yes he did take advantage of her but why is should an 18yr old spend years in jail for doing that to a 15yr old, but a 28 yr old doing that to a 25 year olds is fine even though they were both taken advantage of, because the 15 yr olds innocence was stolen, give me a break no one over the age of 11 is innocent these days.
2007-01-09 06:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by trinigal33167 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually illegal, if he's reported to the police he will be done for statutory rape.. your underage, and i cant totally say that he's just after sex cause i dont know him, but i would probably say he is.. if you did stop having sex he'd prob go get it somewhere out, even though its a 3 yr ages gap i still think that its pervy, hes technically an adult and your still a kid. Date some one your own age. Or break with him till your 16 yrs old, if he loves you he will wait. Guys will say anything to get into your pants.. its just nature
and i totally agree with every thing Rebel says above ^^^
2007-01-09 05:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no you should not believe him when he tells you he loves you. Second all guys want sex from age 5 to 100 it does not matter how old you are. Older guys are just a little more confident and experienced and expect it more I guess. Just enjoy the sex and don't get caught up in all the Love B.S. until you are a little older and wiser.
2007-01-09 05:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Elvis 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
6 months only and you had sex already ? lol isnt this too soon ?
my boyfriend is 18 and i'm 16, we've been together for more than a year .. we never had sex !
well see, usually guys have a strong physical need, this may be ur case, but i think u had sex really early !!
2007-01-09 05:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if he really respected you he would wait until you are 18 and married. Can you say statutory rape? Does your mom and dad know about this. Has your boyfriend asked permission from your parents to do this to you? You should not be worrying about these things like your question. Have you finished your homework? Have a great day.
2007-01-09 05:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i am telling you this from experience all they want from you is sex you need to tell him that you want to do more things other than have sex if he says no then let him go you dont need him because if you get pregnant he will leave and you will be a single mom in high school think about your future i was there once i didnt get pregnant though but i have friends that that has happened to just do what i said.
2007-01-09 05:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe every thing he says. But also keep in mind that he is older and more ready for this than you may be. This is an age old problem that can be worked out.
2007-01-09 05:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys want sex.( 18 is not really an older guy, just older than you )
Just because he wants sex, does not mean he does not love you.
2007-01-09 05:11:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋