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My ex is an azhole, I wrote him a letter last week that I actually regret mailing after I did it but I could not undo it so anyway I wrote him a letter telling him how I wanted to be with him and I loved him and he probably received it yesterday so today when he got to work he logged into yahoo messenger and decided to change his avatar to pic wic this rather pretty girl kissing him on the cheek, I wasn't hurt b/c he is talking to someone b/c I pretty much figured that I am hurt b/c he deliberately tried to hurt me by putting it in my face like that mind you he has not called and said anything re: the letter and I really did not want him too b/c like I said I regret sending it b/c I really do not want to be with him I am just lonely we have far too many hurt feelings between the both of us to get past. My 1st instinct when seeing the pic was to IM him and say somethin but I did not know if I should, I feel so STUPID b/c he thinks I want him and he threw that in my face. What to do?

2007-01-09 04:46:59 · 25 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

WELL, YOU COULD FORGET HIM AND LET HIM GO ON THINKING YOU WANT HIM BECAUSE IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER WHAT HE THINKS. YOU KNOW YOU ARE OVER HIM.

OR...

WRITE HIM ANOTHER LETTER LETTING HIM KNOW HE IS A PIG! LET HIM KNOW THE LETTER WAS A MISTAKE.

2007-01-09 04:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tracie 4 · 0 0

Hey girl. Sorry for your heart ache :( You will feel better though :) Your feelings got in your way. He misses you too, he does. He's in a mood right now and so are you. Give yourself a few days and don't talk to him! That's the worst thing you can do! Hang out with your girlfriends. They will always be with you! Talk to them. They will be on your side! Good luck, sweetie.

2007-01-09 12:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0 0

hey Hun..dont let this guy get you down he ain't worth it..anyways e-mail him an let him know that when you were writing the letter that's how you THOUGHT you felt but also tell him that when you had posted the letter you knew it was only a scrap of writing and you didn't mean anything you had wrote..that will bring him back down to earth and make you more confident in yourself......
good luck Hun...x

2007-01-09 12:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by emma_18d 2 · 0 0

You should let him go and find you some one else who is not going to try to hurt you and who is going to always love you for you and who is not going to bring up stupid stuff like that, that is for girl trying to chance they avatar to pictures with boys kissing or whatever they is going to be doing on there not boys you don't need him boys come and go you sound like a nice and friendly person so i don't know why he would want to hurt you

2007-01-09 13:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0 0

calm down, and let it go. :) it's ok if u feel "embarrased" about spilling ur feelings.. we all go thru moments of weakness. and it's completely understandable for u to be lonely and sad after u broke up....

anyways, let bygones be bygones and move on. start meeting new people, start working on urself. find urself ATtractive. work on ur body, exercise, try on new makeup, hairstyles, and clothes! have fun w/ ur life! meet w/ ur friends, go out, meet new people, be exciting, happy, funny, attractive, and let others see a great, positive, Happy girl. pretty soon u'll be so busy that u'll be the one w/ fun, different pictures on ur sn's. don't worry, be happy ok? find a guy who can't Wait to be with you, not someone who ignores u!

2007-01-09 12:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0 0

You need to just ignore it. You're not a couple anymore so what do you care about what he does. Maybe go buy that t-shirt that says "I'm not with stupid anymore" (hot topic) Try your best to move on and good luck!

2007-01-09 13:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by aimeeme_g 5 · 0 0

Let it go - and move on. Do not continue to attempt communication with him - believe me he will eventually realize you are way past him if you begin to handle this in a mature way. If you see him anywhere - smile, and say hello and let that be that - don't try to have a conversation with him - if he is with another girl smile and say hello to her and let that be that.

2007-01-09 12:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Forget about that asshole and move on girl, play the field a bit unitl you find someone you really like that WON'T hurt your feelings.

2007-01-09 12:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jason D 2 · 0 0

I think that you answered you own question, you stated that you did not want anything to do with him then keep it that way. It does not look like the relationship can be prepared and looks like he has moved on, so you need to do the same.

2007-01-09 12:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

This may sound a bit forward, but you both need to stop playing games. You'll never get anywhere being immature! Sorry if that offended!

2007-01-09 12:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 1 0

Just leave it (the situation) alone. Don't do anything. The more time you spend worrying about it or trying to do anything about it, the longer it will be for you to get past it.

2007-01-09 12:55:21 · answer #11 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0 0

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