Will you lie about your religion or ethnic, just to date a girl you are in LOVED with?
2007-01-09 04:45:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Or to date a guy.
2007-01-09 04:50:19 · update #1
No, if she can't love you for all of you than why bother with the heart ache? If she loves you for you then she will cross whatever boundaries she has to to be with you. But if you lie to her from the start than you are guaranteeing that the relationship wont last. Lies and love don't mix.
2007-01-09 04:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never hide important matters like that the person you are in love with. Doing so will only prove that you are ashamed of your religion and ethnic background.
Did you know that it is very easy for a girl to run a background check on you and get to learn everything about you? (And you would never know that she is investigating you).
Be yourself, and don't lie to her. If you are sincerely in love, you have nothing to hide.
2007-01-09 04:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in order for someone to love the "real" you, they have to know you. If you are lying about who you are, the how can she ever love the real you, and if she finds out you are not the person she thought you were, she might leave you. Best to be honest from the start, then get hurt later when much more of your feelings are involved.
2007-01-09 04:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. That is your heritage and something you should be proud of regardless of what some girl (or anyone) may think. Why would you want to portray something fake or something that you truly are not to someone? If you even have to ask that question, find a different girl!
2007-01-09 04:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't. But I have told lies about myself that were equally large.
In this case, I lied about my sexual history -- exaggerating it so I would appear more experienced than her. The truth eventually came out and it was humiliating.
Never base your relationship on a lie. It will always come back to you.
2007-01-09 04:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably but just know that you will get hurt in the end as lies have a way of catching up with you and you dont know if she will forgive you. So it is a risk but life is full of risks so I would go for it.
2007-01-09 04:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, you wouldn't lie to the person you love. Secondly, she's going to find out about it later anyway.
2007-01-09 04:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... big mistake...if she ever found out that you lied or that you wasn't being completely honest it would probably hurt her and make her doubt everything that you have every told her! Its best to tell the truth....if she doesn't love you for who you are then she probably doesn't really love you anyway!!
2007-01-09 04:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope never, my religion is important to me than a guy
2007-01-09 04:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-01-09 04:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋