He's 14yrs. and can't keep his hands off of things that don't belong to him and he has stolen money from my fiance' and me I really need some advise or suggestions.
2007-01-09 04:37:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
teach him a hard lesson. beat his butt good. then next time he steal something that doest belong to him call the cops. this will teach him a vaulable lesson. just tell the cop to go through all the precedures that he do with regular crimials. tell the cop to hold him for day or couple of hours if that is too server for you. this will teach him that he can not go around stealing and getting away with it. (if you try this make it seem reall as possible)
2007-01-09 04:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i am 17 years old and yes i have that same problem. I stealed on August 31, 2006 that was the last time when i stealed something from a public place. Although i got a ticked from my school resource officer. Yes i have learned my lesson to do not to shoplift again. Although i am on Probation until May 10th 2007. Yes it has been a hard time for myself as well.
Sorry that this happened to u as well.
Here is some advice for u:
2007-01-09 06:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Erik W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no remember if or no longer you place the a refund directly to the cardboard, your BF's mom will in all hazard nonetheless pursue the study. Suicide is a ludicrous thought to contemplate over $500. once you are going to best your self, it rather is by potential of no potential properly worth doing it for certainly one of those small volume. the least complicated ingredient to do, for this volume of money, may be to easily admit it. arise with a good reason you stole out of your companion's mom, and easily admit it. in case you are able to no longer face doing it face-to-face, do it with slightly extra drama - go away a written confession and babbling apology the place your companion's mom will locate it, then disappear to a pal's homestead for some days. Your companion's mom will call you and enable you comprehend each and every thing is all ok. And all would be properly. probable.
2016-11-27 23:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this, but he may be on drugs. Many of the people that I've dealt with that are on drugs do the same thing.
If he's just began to steal things, perhaps he's just gotten into the drugs (if that's the case). Perhaps he's "only" smoking pot. I say only b/c from what I hear the kids are taking these days, pot doesn't seem so bad to me. Check online for signs of drug use. Take him to a dr. for a drug test. Don't tell him where you are going. At least that way, you'll know for sure.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-09 04:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Josi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try the scare tactic. Beating him wont work. My bro in law went through the same thing. Then finally his son prank called 911. And now my bro in law is on probation. So he sent his son to his ex father in law who happens to be an ex military sgt.
2007-01-09 04:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by themom95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, stealing is a crime and you don't want to get charged with aiding and abetting a criminal.
2007-01-09 06:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talk to him?....Is he getting attention from you? or any adult beside him?...
It might be a way to get someones attention. Other wise try speaking to someone that may help him...
Best of Luck
2007-01-09 04:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by latinapr1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gonna need to be with him 24/7 for a while if you want it to stop. there is a reason he is stealing......... give him no free time at all.... be with him, find out whats going on. it will come out.....
2007-01-10 01:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOOP HIS butt!!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep him locked up make him work off what he has stole.
2007-01-09 04:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by cna_angel06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAT HIS A S S ! ! !
2007-01-09 04:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋