It was the same day I met my bf (which is recently) that we flirted around and started to like each other.I'll admit, another reason why we hooked up fast may have been it was at a small get-together and someone else wanted him. Once we said we were dated the flirted was strounger and we mini made-out. The next day he came over to my house and since I felt kind of weird I wanted to lay down. After a little while he came up stairs and started to comfort me. He was speaking of how nice I was and other thhings and sounded sincer Soon enough we started to make out and evantually had sex. I brought it on and asked about it since I was h0rny. We agreed since I lost my virginity it would be ok maybe to tell the close friend that had the party. I heard he told some of his pals. I don't know if its true or not, but I think I heard he said it would come quick for us to have sex. Since then, we've done a little, but he lives in the town area. The more I think, the more I wonder.
2007-01-09 04:35:34 · 13 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think he is. This is just a shallow sexual encounter without any commitment. If you're O.K. with that, then keep making your body available for him.
2007-01-09 04:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, if you decide to have sex with anyone at any point in time, it should just be kept between the two of you, unless youre both okay with people knowing. I dont think he used you, I think maybe things just happened a little too fast and he's probably not a mature guy if he's going around telling his friends and saying that basically you were easy. Thats a typical "immature jerk" thing to do. Don't worry about him, you dont want to regret the first guy you slept with because the situation turned into a nightmare. Just move on because you will never forget your first and you dont want all your memories to be bad ones.... GOOD LUCK =)
2007-01-09 12:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by gracie519 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he told others, he really has no respect for u, he just wanted to brag to his friends. he was making bets with his pals that he could get what he wanted easily. u are selling yourself too cheaply, without promise of a commitment, or ring, or anything, just giving in so fast without really knowing if u really even were compatible. boys use girls Then tell, giving the girl the bad reputation. it seems to involve a different set of standards with girls who give in easily, as with boys. the girls are known as easy while the boys seem to get a reputation that doesn't hurt them in the least.
2007-01-09 12:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been though the same deal. I liked this guy and we made out. I asked and he said in a year or so. well he used me and dated another girl. HE IS USING YOU FOR SEX!!!
2007-01-09 12:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex with this person, and he has no emotional ties to you - there is a chance he is using you. A lot of people these days should learn to keep their pants on.
2007-01-09 12:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by aSchway 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be really young ......... sorry but your rep is in the toilet. Everyone will know and think you are easy. Don't give it up anymore.. That is something precious that you only give to someone you care for and love and I know your not in love with this kid. Think about your future, make wiser choices.
2007-01-09 12:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch this guy quick. he just wanted to fu*k you, AND he has a big mouth. Do you think maybe you could hold off next time. it makes you sound like a slut and now everybody's gonna be on your a** about it. Next time, use your head, not his. You screwed yourself too, BTW.
2007-01-09 12:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Iseult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's using you. But have you asked him if he has told anybody about the time you spent together?
2007-01-09 12:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's not using u. If u didn't wanna have sex with him u didn't have to. its 100% on u. its always on the female. She always has the power to say no.
2007-01-09 12:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Young5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cool it on the physical for a while and you will see if he is in it for you or not.
2007-01-09 12:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by sigkappsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋