Expierienced guys (please no kids . . . ) -> I need help with a bf question..?

Question

My bf tried to finger me but I didnt allow him because I freaked out a bit, I've never been fingered before and well I wasn't sure like where they went with that? :S
and I know you might think this sick but I kind of need to know and I dont want to be embarassed and ask my bf :S
please help, guys who've done that before??

And for those who aren't sure about what my qu is : I'm wonder just where they put their hands, just to know, to know what my bf wanted to do. . .

Answer 1

lol this is cute... you must be young... i dont know where your bf was going but i usally go in with two and up just to hit the G spot will i use my thumb to play with the c.l.i.t. but hey thats just me... your bf might have wanted to put his finger in your butt... i dont know ask him...

Answer 2

Some boys can be a bit rough. They are virgins too and don't have a clue to what they are doing. They hold their fingers really stiff and do weird things with them. Take it easy and get to know each other really well before you start going for the private parts. Read one of those books together about how babies are made and use it to look at each others bodies and so on. Make sure to talk to Mom or Dad about issues regarding boys and sex. Mom was a girl once and Dad a boy. They just might surprise you with their answers and insights.

Answer 3

Tell him to go slow. You sound as if you are dying to know the feeling of it, yet afraid of what may be! you know what, asking him is the best thing to do coz in any relationship, you have to be open with each other about anything, provided you both are matured enough though to talk about the birds and bees.

Answer 4

well, first,are you old enough to be going there? if so,and you dont want to then dont. never do something for somebody,unless you are willing. it will lead ti intercoarse,so protect yourself.make sure he washes his hands well,trim his fingernails,he want to insert his fingers inside of you`re vagina,it can be very good if done gentley, try some lube,so it does`nt hurt.if he preasures you or he`s gonna leave you ,then open the door and say seeya! but be safe first .

Answer 5

Im not a guy but it sounds to me like your scared because your not ready. It also sounds like your young as well. I would suggets you need to tell your boyfriend to back off cause once he goes that ffar he will be expecting sex soon and if your not ready for whats going on now sex isnt an option. Take your time say NO

Answer 6

it's possible that he's just bad at it. is he just putting one finger in there and wiggling it around? i did that the first time i tried it (stupid idea) and that's kind of weird.
well, most of it is on your part, in actuality. have you ever taken it in the back? the important thing is to breathe and try to relax. your body is going to tense up just because it's something you've never tried before, and relaxing is the biggest thing you can do to get over that hurdle.

Answer 7

I thought you'd have found it more embarassing to ask strangers than ur own bf. Try using a mirror.

Answer 8

Sounds like you need to take a sex education class before you go any further.

Answer 9

If he knows what he is doing, you can get really worked up, well, at least *I* can, with fingering.

All he does is stimulate, rub and penetrate with his fingers.

It's actually very nice. Just relax..

Answer 10

Well it is a bit weird at first and really tight!!
But as it get wetter and more hot is feel great to her, don't rush it let it happen when you are ready!!