2007-01-09 04:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by yoyoyoyoyoy 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
ignore it... they are imbeciles.. your a great person as you are and fighting dont solve anything..... unles they are physically touching you then you have the right to defend yourself... sock good and hard in the nose! take self defence.. otherwise be tehr bigger person and realize only idiots make fun of others...and have narrow minds... and will one day be picked on for something themselves..
find someone you trust to talk to.. and adult or friend.....
2007-01-09 04:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Cexiboi,
Depending on the setting, report to the authorities. If it continues, consider higher authorities. That would be first.
Second, ignore them, consider the source. Take the high road. If you resort to picking back, that will cause an escalation. Walk away if you can.
In the end, you have a right to be treated with respect. If you are in fear of bodily harm, alert civic authorities.
Sometimes there is a magic ticket, waiting to turn a situation like that around - a well placed positive 'thing' given to the bully.
Don't allow that to go on! There is no situation that cannot be dealt with some way, and I do not mean violence. Here are some web sites that can help too.
2007-01-09 12:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to identify the problem first-is there any particular reason why they are picking on you?If there is,try to solve it peacefully,however hackneyed this might sound,because since you said it's a 'them',beating them up will just antagonise them further and they might get back at you in a worse manner.
Something else you can do(and this is really the more satisfying option XD)--get your best friends to stand up for you firmly and fight,and show the bullies that they can't get away with anything they like.However,if they get at you when your friends aren't there after this then that'd be worse.
The most intelligent route would be talking to your parents or someone older,(a brother or cousin maybe?) and asking their advice.They are much more experienced and would be able to suggest the best path for you to take.That way,you probably won't face any serious after-effects.
Hope I helped.Anyways,best of luck with the idiots!:-)
2007-01-09 13:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Morphia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whose doing it. If it is your siblings, you need to ask your parents for a family conference or even family counseling. If it is at school see if the school counselor or the principle can help you. Otherwise, keep out of their way as much as possible, never show fear, and if all else fails go ahead and beat ''em up. That's all some people will understand is brute force. Stupid of them, but there it is.
2007-01-09 22:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother had the same problem when he was little. What my Dad did was enroll him in Tae Kwon Do. After he started attending classes, no mant people messed with him. He was a little hell raiser when he was little though. Anyways he made it to a second degree, good self esteem, and he learned to kick butt ;). I'm not advocating violence, but Juts the knowledge that you can defend yourself might help you out a bit. Don't worry though. School is not forever.
2007-01-09 20:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by faerijo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your circumstances. When I was 12, this one girl started in on me, well the other kids were like animals. The more I didn't defend myself against her, the more of them picked on me. It actually got to the point where several kids chased me home trying to fight me. My parents kept telling me I couldn't fight. Finally, I had ENOUGH.
I got my parents to go with me to her house and explained to her parents what was happening. I asked both sets of parents to "monitor" a fight so they knew it was fair and when to stop. They agreed. When the girl realized she was about to have to really fight, without the pack of friends supporting her, she backed down. I called her bluff, and she gave in. We never fought, and I didn't have anymore trouble with the other girls after that. I also learned to stand up for myself. I never got into a real fight after, but was ready and willing if I had to.
2007-01-09 12:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it? nahhh just make sure they know it doesnt bother you... talk crap about them too- thats what i would do....
why are they picking on you?
2007-01-09 12:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by name goes here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your environment -----
arrival/departure times of certain activities
assess friends' intentions
change your attitude(think like a hunter, instead of a victim)
2007-01-09 12:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by BluesGuitarFan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keemo gives good advice on this
2007-01-09 12:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by osageavenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋