2007-01-09 04:26:38 · 29 answers · asked by thejazzman2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having sex, you have no feelings for the person. Making Love, you love the person.
2007-01-09 04:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual activity, without a foundation, is just sex. Guys who lie to women and manipulate them in to bed only want sex. There's no requirement for it, except that the participants are willing partners. It is mechanical in its performance and void of any warmth, even though the two people involved are intertwined. It offers no future and leaves behind an ugly past.
Love making is different. Love making is based on a firm foundation of care and commitment. It confirms the love that is already there. It has a depth to it, a purpose, and a meaning. Nothing is more fulfilling in life.
2007-01-09 12:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is shared by two people who love each other deeply or care about one another. When you make love, you are making an intimate connection with that person to make it memorable and satisfying to each other. Having sex can be done with anybody. Having sex is just for that moment when both people are hot or in the mood and just want to do it. They are not really thinking about the other person or putting any thought into it.
2007-01-09 12:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by msdhoward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex generally refers to the physical nature of the intimacy. To have sex usually means to be about satisfying myself. It is in a way selfish. Sex starts with a physical erection and ends with an ejaculation. The more we have sex, the lesser we care about it. And you can potentially have sex with anyone that arouses you.
Making love is more the emotional connection in intimacy. It is kinda selfless in that while making love our focus is our partner's satisfaction. The more she's satisfied the greater I feel the same way. The more we make love, it actually brings two people closer together and the more they want to make love to each other. And I'll only be able to make love to someone I have an emotional, mental connection with ~ rather than just a physical one.
2007-01-09 12:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well making in love involves a lot of emotions and your more concerned about pleasing the other person than yourself because you get pleasure from pleasing the other person. When your just having sex it is less emotional and your more concerned about satisfying yourself than the other person. thats not to say that you have no concern for the other persons satisfaction, your just not as concerned as when making love
2007-01-09 12:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by silkymille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love you are thinking about pleasing the other person. Sex you are just interested in pleasing yourself.
2007-01-09 12:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by rooting4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love - lots of foreplay, taking your time doing it.
Just having sex - wham bam thank you maam! Getting up right after and going about other business or going directly to sleep depending on the time.
2007-01-09 12:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by KrazyKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The former involves some level of emotion for the person you are with, and tends to be a more tender act...the latter is just intercourse, and you may or may not have any feelings at all for your partner. It's done primarily for the physical feeling you get.
2007-01-09 12:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u try doin the both? well hw wud u do tat wen u dont know the diff urself. wen ur fcuking someone thinking its just a machine or a fcuk hole , its having sex. wen u have emotions n love n attachment , the desire to make another person want u more n make happy...tats love making....u make love, not push ur tool in and out for the sake of it...eeww..( i hope u dont want more details)
2007-01-09 12:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by samira_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well making love is when a man and a women who are in love and married are doing it and just having sex is when a male and female are just doing it causually.
2007-01-09 12:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋