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my mom sleeps a big part of the day. she cant go anywhere cause she dont have to much strength. she could pass away soon. so i wanna get her a wonderful birthday present any ideas?

2007-01-09 03:52:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

19 answers

i'm so sorry to read about your mom.why not just a day at home w/movies and food.lots of conversation maybe help her keep a diary of things that she wants to say so that you could look back and remember. this is the hardest question i have ever answered and by far the saddest. god bless all of you.

2007-01-09 04:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, increased intracranial pressure can be caused by quite a few different things, like a brain tumor, intracranial hemmorhaging (bleeding in the brain), trauma, a blockage of CSF and some other conditions such as meningitis could cause increased ICP. Now, while all I would be doing is guessing here, I'm assuming that you're looking for guesses to maybe give you an idea of what it could be. Its definitely not meningitis, as she'd be dead with it for 3 months, and its most likely not any type of trauma, since I would imagine that you would have included that had shehad any head trauma. My best guess would be a tumor. Depending on the area of the brain a tumor is in, it can have many different effects, as different parts of the brain control different things. While the sudden onset doesn't necessarily make sense for anything other than trauma (which, again, I would imagine you would know about) it is possible that a tumor was there and grew to a point to effect a certain part of the brain, and as soon as it grew to that point, her symptoms started. One other option, while unlikely and rare, could be Reye's syndrome. Its generally a disease that effects children, some 19 and below, and rarely adults, and one of the causes is related to taking aspirin while having viruses such as the flu or chicken pox.

2016-05-22 22:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How about a photo album or video all about the family, from her marriage to the last child she gave birth to, in-clude all the things done together as a fam. When ya can use captions in a comical way.Every family has had some good laughs, put them together for her to enjoy!!! Then of course don't forget this b'day, do cake icecream, hats, friend and fam, do it up right for Mom!!

2007-01-09 03:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0 0

The best thing for her is to spend time and be there for her and do the simple things that make a big difference. For example, maybe make something you made yourself like poem. But its the thought that counts anyway.

2007-01-09 04:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by aimz0608 1 · 0 0

Write something to her. Or give her a picture of you. spend time w/her. that's really the most important thing is 'time.' read to her. what are her favorites? do them for her & don't be afraid to let her know how scared you are. time & talking, that's probably the best you can do for her. I hope there is peace between you both and that you both know the Lord as your Savior. God bless you!

2007-01-09 04:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Forever 6 · 0 0

How about getting a good book and read it to her. Make a blanket or something that have fond memories and hang where she can see it. Just be there and make the day as normal as possible.

2007-01-09 04:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 1 0

People who are bedridden for some reason always have cold feet, so why not get her some bright socks to wear everyday of the week. She will feel the love even if she can't verbalize it.

2007-01-09 04:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0 0

i think the best presant to give her is your time. just devote your whole day to her. you might do that already but there is a way that yopu can make it spical. bake a cake and let her blow out the candles. get her a massager for her birthday. that way it will make her feel well if she have any ache spots.

2007-01-09 04:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some ideas, some people have already said.

Scrapbook is alway nice- gather some pictures of the family. Children-Grand-children..Family.

A family gathering is alway nice to see everyone around.

Take her out to a movie....
Dinner....

Best of Luck

2007-01-09 04:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by latinapr1229 2 · 0 0

What is her favorite music? Before my mom past away (from cancer) i made here a cd of elvis presley and softly played it for her she tryed to sing along, she loved it. Whatever you decied iam sure she will love it. Hang in there.

2007-01-09 04:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by c.silva 1 · 0 0

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