Why is life so hard? School, work, relationships...everything.. sometimes I dont want to go on doing the same things over and over again...I wish there was something to look foward too..I live solely for my mother..she is my everything..she works so hard and I just want to make her happy and proud...
2007-01-09 03:06:28 · 14 answers · asked by . 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to live for yourself. Your mother can remain very important to you, but you must live for yourself and for your happiness. School is extremely tough but you must get through it in order to get a decent job. Work is always going to be "work" but you need to find something that you like and you will ultimately be good at it. And relationships... you have to keep looking and you will find the right person for you. For right now, work on your happiness because it is very difficult to be with someone if you aren't happy with yourself. You can look forward to the day that you have saved a lot of money and become successful, but in the short term, there must be some material possession that you want. Start saving your money for it and you can look forward to buying it. Just be yourself and be happy with who you are. Be honest, a good friend, smart worker and a good partner and your life will come together. Don't be so hard on yourself. I am sure your mother is proud of you.
2007-01-09 03:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by betterlife_travel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks and then you die. That's why you need to make the best out of every situation and every opportunity given to you. Life is very hard, but have fun with it. Don't stress. As long as you find a way to be happy in everything your doing then it wont seem so bad.
Both my parents passed away within the past two years. I've had to drop out of college to get my bills paid. I'm working fulltime with no time for my friends or anything else and the rest of my family is getting on me about getting back to school. Very stressful. But I'm happy where I am for now. Not completely content, but I have no regrets. It makes life much easier!
I'm sure your mother is very proud of you. Just keep your head up and stay positive!
2007-01-09 11:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by afichick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is very luck to have you and Im sure she is very proud of you.
When ever I feel down I think of the following quotes:
Flow with whatever may happen and let your mind be free :
Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing.
This is the Ultimate
or
The Sense of LIVING is JOY enough!
Good and god bless
2007-01-09 11:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by TAAP 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things change, and there is something to look forward to. I felt the same way in school, but you'll eventually get out and have a chance to find better jobs and travel and meet different people.
2007-01-09 16:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is so Hard for many of us. Its a fight to live. Always put God first. Be Proud of Yourself
2007-01-09 11:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by sugerglaze28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard, but keep workin at it. Eventually you will be able to look back at what you have accomplished and be very proud of yourself. I bet you mom is real proud of you all ready.
2007-01-09 11:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Chevy Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life can be mundane. That is why we live for vacations!!! You are a good boy to be concerned for your mom. Give her a card and maybe a flower and tell her how much you appreciate her. She will glow and that is another thing to live for. May God bless both of you.
2007-01-09 11:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is choose to put up with everything. If you make a choice to do all the stuff you dont like it wont seem so bad. if you make the choice, doing whatever it is doesn't seem forced and belive me that makes a huge difference in the way you feel.
2007-01-09 11:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by ROBERT R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life doesn't have to be hard, just take it slow don't think of tomorrow and live everyday like it is your last day
have fun to the max
2007-01-09 11:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Today is the first day of your life! Seize the day my young friend be bold and march forward straight into life looking ahead and be PROUD of who you are and why you are here. Winston Churchill DON"T GIVE UP DON"T GIVE UP!!!!
2007-01-09 11:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋