Theres this guy & we've been trying to go on a date but something always pops up where we cant. Last time we had plans I had to bail cause I ended up doing some late xmas shopping & had a dinner to go to. He completely flipped out on me and wouldnt talk to me for days.This past wkend he invited me to go to his house to watch a movie. I said yes so I was on my way to his neighborhood and when it came time to get the specific address I called and called and no answer.I texted him that I was already in his neighborhood, so he ends up texting back that he was too nervous and that he couldnt. I was like are you serious? And he said yes that he was sorry. I was so angry, here I was looking forward to a nice date and he bails on me right when I'm in his neighborhood?! When I bailed I at least gave him the heads up way before we were gonna meet up. Hes been texting and calling me since saturday saying sorry but I havent answered. That just really pissed me off.
2007-01-09 03:01:29 · 6 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought it when he flipped out on me the first time it was really unnecessary cause he knew I had a dinner and its not like it was all last minute that I cancelled on him. I think I have all the reason to be mad cause it just tells me that he has no respect. I mean I drove way out to his neighborhood and hes gonna just be like no I cant I'm sorry at the VERY last minute. I dont think I should be talking to him if hes being like this and we arent even together.
2007-01-09 03:03:33 · update #1
Sounds like his loss. I hate people who play stupid games and can't grow up. You have a life, there's nothing wrong with that. You have the common courtesy to let people know the plans may not work out. It sounds like he was trying to get you back. I wouldn't waste another thought on this immature person. There are plenty more fish in the sea...say adious amigo!
2007-01-09 03:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by daff73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get why you're mad at him and I'd be the same because he was very rude for turning it all off at the last minute. Forgive him this time and see what happens when the next date is arranged. You never know, he might have really been so nervous, just one more chance and see how it goes because it'll show him that you're willing to give him another chance even though he doesn't really deserve it. You've shown how annoyed you are already by not answering his texts/calls for a few days so he'll appreciate it more.
2007-01-09 11:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your timing is off and maybe this relationship is not something you should be pursuing. When things are right they tend to work out a bit easier and it sounds like neither of you are putting much of an effort into this. You have every right to be upset that he didnt have the balls to tell you before your 'movie date' that he was going to bail. My advice- stop taking his calls and find a real man. Starting a relationship shouldnt be such a chore, it should come natural.
2007-01-09 11:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the nervous reaction was just an excuse. It sounds like he wanted to get you back for canceling on him. He seems too immature for you. Find a better guy sweetie.
2007-01-09 11:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a freak. How is it that freaks manage to get women in the first place, and then pull wacky stuff like this and STILL get the women?
2007-01-09 11:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoooooa,
Move on
2007-01-09 11:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋