I really like this co-worker and he really likes me! I'm with someone I love and have been with for the over 3 and 1/2 years of my life. My Boyfriend loves my son, but I'm not sure what to do anymore cause he acts imature at times and I always tell him. We have almost lived together for a 1 year and I feel like I want to try something new with my co-worker, but not really. I'm scared to leave home. I have a kid and need to look out for him. Ok, I'm 24 and the co-worker is 39! We have different taste in things and we don't really have that much of a common ground, but we really like one another. He tells me that I'm always on his mind, but I don't know! He has a son and he's divorced! His son and my son love hanging with one another b/c they are only 3 years apart. My son's 7 and his 10! I really like him too, but I feel that I'm not ready to move on and I love my current boyfriend, but its getting really hard at work, b/c we take breaks togther. What should I do? I Luv both my boys?
2007-01-09 03:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by deadgrl6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell this coworker that you are currently in a relationship that you enjoy, and you are off-limits unless the relationship ends, but you will gladly remain friends.
If you do feel ready to start a new relationship, break-up w/ your current boyfriend first, dont cheat on him.
2007-01-09 03:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by sj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You set yourself up for this. Stop taking breaks with and flirting with your co-worker.
You are disrespecting your boyfriend whom you claim to "love".
He would be humiliated if he knew how you were behaving at work. And I'm sure your other co-workers will be talking if they are not already.
You have someone at home that loves you and cares for you. The grass always seems greener with someone new, but how many times are you going to change it up? Everytime you get bored, your son will get a new "daddy".
Either leave your boyfriend now (poor guy). Or immediately stop taking breaks with your "crush" and start behaving like an adult in a committed relationship.
I do not understand why people put themselves in situations like this. Keep your relationships at work professional. If you work with a cute guy. Do not eat lunches with him etc.... why set yourself up for temptation.
2007-01-09 03:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by cathoratio 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put your son above all.
Decide whether thsi new relationship is worth you leaving your current boyfriend for. 3 1/2 years is a long time.
2007-01-09 03:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is temporary, you really should try to work on your relationship at home, and stop comparing the two lifesyles. You really think that this co-worker has only you on his mind.
2007-01-09 03:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A destroy is a foul ingredient, till the courting is undesirable. when you consider which you're saying your pastime is fairly much long previous, i'm curious why. you are able to desire to communicate and locate the excuses you combat. attempt to alter slightly. the two certainly one of you. it rather is undesirable to stroll faraway from somebody who you comprehend so properly, merely when you consider which you're bored. Be sensible. attempt to restoration your courting first. no remember if that's broken too plenty, then go, in case you the two agree and are user-friendly approximately it. or you will soreness interior for something of your existence.
2016-11-27 23:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want the spark that every new relationship brings that's why you are confused. I would stay with the current bf and work things out with him. think that your kid needs a real family and stable life.
2007-01-09 03:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by chikis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋