Ok, so here is the vertic. There is this guy that I find appealing. He is very sweet and good looking. The only problem is he doesnt talk to me! I mean he just gives me "one word answers." I got bold oneday and asked him out and he said yes. We had a great time and he talked to me a lot, which was surprising. So now whenever I am around him he doesnt really talk to me... ahem one word anwsers, and it has been almost a month now since our last date and he still hasnt asked me out and he is telling people he is going too!!! It is so frustrating by all means. It is like he is leading me on. And i have no idea why i am head over heels with this guy! Does anyone have any ideas to my dilemia? Because I sure hell dont. Thank you so much!
2007-01-09 03:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, you mean girls ask shy guys out, no way you're lying.
2007-01-09 03:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Hem 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is shy. Eventually he may open up to you or he may never. If he continues to be shy guy for too long, you may want to seek other options. But if you like him a lot, you should try and find ways for him to open up. Make him more comfortable. He probably likes you a lot and is afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. Aren't girls the same way when a cute boy talks to them?
2007-01-09 11:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is the strong silent type, maybe he is shy, but i don't know why you are head over heels for some guy that you have only had a decent coversation with one time(the first date) like that would bug me, don't you find it pretty boring to do anything with him why would you want to?
2007-01-09 11:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just reserved, try to get him alone sometime and tell him how youre feeling, i know that maybe hard to do but i think that he must have an interest if he tells people that he is going to ask you out. he sounds like a nice guy so dont give up to easily. all the best.
2007-01-09 11:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by wang eyed lil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is shy,I'm a bit like that if the other person doesn't take the initiative i cant do it,maybe you need 2 ask him out again and ask him whats his prob.
2007-01-09 12:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by tuguinha79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right......the simple answer is ask him out...... Or just tell him when are you going to take me out again .... I really enjoyed the first date....
That should work......Good Luck X
2007-01-09 11:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to play him. the way a girl drives me mad is if i have to work for it, mayb your giving it to him too easy.
You should try and make him chase you
Good Luck
2007-01-09 11:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mr E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes telling people he will, it sounds like hes keen.
however he could be a bit on the shy side.
why dont you ask him?
2007-01-09 11:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never happened to me
2007-01-09 11:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋