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my last question.
i told my dad, and he told that guys dad, but my grandma doesn't belive me! she said it's my fault! she said i would always hang out with him and i made him want to kiss me and that it's my fault it happened. she said that's what happens when you hang out and talk with guys instead of women.
2007-01-09 02:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
OMG dont listen to her. The toxic grandmother always thinks its the girls fault No matter what you did or did not do it is HIS FAULT!!! He is an adult and is supposed to have control over himself and he doesnt. Next time he comes near you just scream as loud as you can and tell him to GET YOUR HANDS OFF ME NOW!!!! Do that every time until your Dad realizes you mean it . Your grandma would have you in the kitchen but she probably means well and maybe there is truth in some of what she says Like maybe you shouldnt hang out with all the guys all the time.
2007-01-09 03:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your grandma believe whatever she wants. most old people don't like bold lifestyle of the youngsters and you can attribute it to generation gap. As regards this guy, tell him clearly not to try anything else ever again or you are going to report him to the police immediately. Be stern with him and ignore him and if he tries anything, immediately complain to anybody who is there.
2007-01-09 03:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i dont understand your ques really, do you mean he forced you to kiss him ? if he did that he was in the wrong, but if he just reached out and kissed you then he probably has feelings for you and thought you might feel the same. if it wasnt forced then i dont see the big deal about it. just tell him not to do it again. as far as your grandma goes i can see what shes saying to a point the boy thinks you like him that way if you dont just tell him you just want to be friends and let that be the end of it dont make a federal case out of it. sounds pretty harmless to me.
2007-01-09 03:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not your fault that this guy is sexually harassing you, your grandmother must live in the dark ages. Don't tolerate that kind of behavior and don't blame your self for something that is in no way your fault. Stay away from that guy!!
2007-01-09 03:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself some pepper spray. He has no right taking advantage of a 17 year old, he is way too old to be trying to kiss 25 year olds. Remind him of that one too.
2007-01-09 03:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your quesiton? If you hang out with guys yes, they might want to kiss you. there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-09 03:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's old and set in her ways, to a point and no matter what you tell her she will not believe you.
2007-01-09 09:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋