i recently moved on from a guy i liked because it just didnt seem to be going anywhere and he seemed to be taking advantage of my feelings instead of being sincere... and then i found his best friend liked me and one spontaneous night he kissed me and from then on we've been together and i believe i hold true feelings for him...but sometimes i worry that im only making myself feel better... especially when i hear news of his friend going out with other girls.. i still get jealous and angry... is the jealousy a sign that i'm not really over his friend? or is it jst the disappointment that he chose someone else over me?
2007-01-09 02:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by risa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, it's normal. It means you had at least some real feelings for the other guy. But don't sweat it too much. Once you develop even bigger feelings for this new guy or whomever in the future, the ex, while never disappearing from your head, won't bring back any emotional response.
2007-01-09 02:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, you need to heal from the loss, but you also had wishes that things would have worked out-jealousy can show you think it may work out with another girl, the disappointment is that it wasn't you, anger is a sign of hurting. Follow your feelings with this new person, he sounds better for you.
2007-01-09 03:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by shotze01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its jealousy, but disappointment! my ex
dumped me 4 my younger sister i was upset 4 long time
but i woldnt call it jealousy just hurt!!!
2007-01-17 02:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by goth girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer this...
2007-01-09 02:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by ~Crystal~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not my expertise =(
2007-01-09 02:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋