boyfriend hits
2007-01-09 02:51:59 · 36 answers · asked by jasmine s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to block.
Most people will scream and yell at you to get out of the relationship. But I won't. You're a grown up. If you want to be with someone like that do it. As long as you understand that it will never stop. I have never heard of one case like this where it ended well, either the girl ends up in the hospitable or she's dead. If you are okay with that, stay with him. Just promise not to have any kids, no child should have to grow up around that.
2007-01-09 02:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So leave him, dont be foolish. He hits your onces, and you might as well consider yourself to be a battered woman. I know your not ignorant to what happens in the news today. You hear about his everyday all the time about woman who were in abusive relationships and then end up killed. Maybe if they left them from the first time they got hit they probably be alive today. Unless you have a death wish or some sort, LEAVE before its too late. Don't get caught up with the "but, i love him" crap. LEAVE befores it too late.
2007-01-09 02:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by cib0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hit u once he will hit u again. Answer these questions to yourself. Do I like the way it feel when he hits me? If I get a black eye next time what will my family say or do to him? What if he put me in the hospital next time or worse? Sweetie use your brain in this one not your hormones. and another thing he's new get another one that's NOT domestic.
2007-01-09 03:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should respect yourself more than this. He doesn't love you if he hits you. He is using you to take out his frustrations. A relationship should make you feel good about yourself and who you are. Get away from him now! You will find a guy who treats you with the love and respect you deserve. Don't allow yourself to be treated this way...it's not right.
2007-01-09 02:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a new bf and he already hit you?!? Why would you want to stay with someone like that unless you think nothing of yourself. It's just gonna get worse, and he's gonna get crazy on you. He'll see you talking to your cousin and set you on fire accusing you of cheating or something. Get some self esteem and leave him.
2007-01-09 02:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will most def hit you again because you let him. I'm sorry if I'm being harsh. He's a NEW boyfriend, so it's not like you're in too deep anyway. Just get out NOW!!! Get counseling services.
2007-01-09 02:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like being hit, then stay with him. Otherwise get out of this relationship as soon as possible. I don't think you want to spend hours/ days in hospital.
2007-01-09 02:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that if your boyfriend hits you then he doesn't really like you. I think that you should get out of that relationship because after he hits you one time he might do it again you should get out before he does something worse.You deserve better and their are guys who treat you really good.
2007-01-09 02:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by darkbunny15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy physical, emotional, verbal, and mental abuse then stay with him.
Just don't be surprised when your family and friends stop coming to the hospital every time you've checked in due to broken bones and gun shot or stab wounds.
And when they attend your funeral they'll all be asking why in the hell you stayed with someone like that when you deserved so much better.
2007-01-09 02:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hits you and you are ok with it? Leave him. You may think you love him but trust me it is never going to get any better. Leave him and seek counceling before it escalates and he does worse than hit you.
2007-01-09 02:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋