Im a firstbtime mom. I still have 5 moths to go and I just moved to NY i have no friends or family members in rhe area and would like to find someone to talk to or go out with..(im married) im just looking for a few friends that are moms to be like me that want to shere stories and fears..this is my last try before i go to the my doctor for depression which i've been diagnosed before..plis help!!!
2007-01-09 02:38:45 · 14 answers · asked by kc 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I recently became a new Mom in a new town and found myself in a similar situation without family or close contacts.
There are PRE-NATAL CLASSES available in most areas (for free). This not only prepares you for the experience of childbirth and what follows, but also allows you to meet other pregnant moms!
After my baby was born, the public health nurse provided me with a list or resources including groups where moms and babies meet for interaction and socialization on a weekly basis. There you can meet new friends who also have babies, while sharing advice and discussing the joys and challenges of parenthood. They have similar groups for toddlers.
There are also LIBRARY programs (drop-in and registered) geared towards moms and new babies. Programs start as young as 0 months! Mother Goose on the Loose is one such program, but there are many others. Check with your local library.
Also, check your local area for a program similar to "reel babies". Reel Babies is a film screening series that offers Moms and other caregivers a chance to see current releases (grown up movies!) with their babies in tow. Every detail has been adjusted in the theatre for this special audience. They dim the lights, modify the volume (regular movie audio hurts babies' ears), and bring in change tables, exersaucers, bouncy seats and other amenities. They also have our VIB (Very Important Baby) stroller parking outside of the auditorium. They like to keep the babies in the newborn – pre-crawling range, but will absolutely not turn anyone away! The films shown at each screening are chosen by the attendees themselves (by online vote)
More importantly, they have Pre-movie SOCIALIZATING beginning 1 hour prior to the movie start time. This allows you to meet other new moms and babies!
Empire Theatres offers the program I spoke of:
http://www.empiretheatres.com/promotions/reel_babies.asp
But I know other cinemas do the same. Ask or email your local cinema...
There are many people in the same situation who would love find a friend in you.
Good luck :o)
2007-01-09 03:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. I'm a single mom of a 2 year old & the last time I ever went out (even to eat @ a restaurant) was before I became pregnant in 2004! I work part-time & once I get home it's just me & the baby. So I truly understand what you're feeling! I had a very lonely pregnancy but there's much to do, especially in NYC. There are lots of mommy groups in the area - you may want to join.
Check out babyzone.com & my ultimate favorite babytalk.com - you can sign up for a free magazine - definitely keeps you company & you can talk to other moms & moms-to-be online or even in person.
Good luck & best wishes for a healthy, new baby!
2007-01-09 02:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by njboricua78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you'll pregnant right now then congrads if you'll happy be if you'll not i say wait a little bit longer your baby only 7mos why are you trying so close together at less wait till he 2 and you should talk to your bf 1st even though if he taking care of your child then he was really like kids and im sure he will want one on his own but shouldnt you make sure he right first maybe marry thats just me.
2016-05-22 22:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in a house or apartment? What about church, library, laundromat, grocery store, book store? Take a noncredit class at a local college. Even if you don't belong to a church, you might consider joining one just to meet other people. Don't resort to medication, they only mask symptoms and they have side effects too. How far is your family/friends? Can someone from your family visit you in NY a few times per month for a few days?
2007-01-09 02:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join la leche league or moms and more or sign up with meetup.com and other organizations that will put you in touch with new moms--It really does make a differnce having a support group--get this book--the girlfriends's guide to pregnancy--it's a riot--some of these newer books are hilarious--with lots of tips ad jokes about becoming a new mom--You just need some outlets to express your fears/concerns adn to be able to feel NORMAL--and yes--see your doctor and a counselor to help you deal with your simultaneous move and your pregnancy--Wow--that's a lot to handle at once!! Good Luck:)
2007-01-09 04:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to church - I am sure there are other first time moms there as well. Also, you could call the social services in your area, ask them where would be a nice place for a new mom to be to hook up and talk to other new moms to be. Ask your Dr. if there are any new moms to be groups in your area.
Congrats to you and baby to be!
2007-01-09 02:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by soulful thinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having the first baby is very exciting and scary, and to be alone in a strange place makes it worse for you. You need to get out and shop for you baby, you will meet other new moms while doing that. Good luck to you and your first.
2007-01-09 02:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can email me anytime you would like. I am the mother of a 2 year old and she is the greatest thing in the world. You can email me with questions, stories, or if you just want to talk.
2007-01-09 03:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't live there but I'd be glad to be your online friend. I've got 2 kids, married 34 years and have kept children for 25+ years. Just email me. Click on my profile.
2007-01-09 02:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have the baby you could join a mothers group...Mommy and me or something like that...Go to a park and talk to moms...since you are pregnant they will want to talk to you...Moms love to talk about their kids and they will want to talk to you about your baby, even though it's not here yet...Good luck...
2007-01-09 02:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by jonah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋