A friend of mine and I have been discussing the possibilities of have sex. Although we don't plan anything, when I chill at his house things get a little heated, and he gets the best of me. But, we never have been ALLLLL the way? Every time it's either one of our faults to why we never have sex. I feel that whatever happens, happens, but he said himself that he's afraid of hurting our frienship. From the mouth of a virgin, I KNOW he's the one. I have turned down numerous sex partners cause I felt they weren't the one. Now I know. He makes me laugh, cries when I cry, just, the perfect guy. Sould I just give into my true feelings for him and go for it?
2007-01-09 02:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In your heart and you feel that he is the one then yes but please note sex between friends do change either the person starts feeling just friends with benefits with the person but perhaps it could lead to more just follow your heart
2007-01-09 02:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question and one that requires a lot of thought. Are you in a relationship with this guy? (i.e. Is he your boyfriend?) Have you talked to him about your feelings?? Whatever happens, just be very, very carefull. Getting involved with a friend sexually can really ruin the relationship (especially if you are not technically dating). It can cause jealousy and a lot of hurt feelings. On the other hand, if you both are mutally dating and both want the relationship to go forward, then it could turn out to be something really wonderful (especially since you were friends with him first, you probably know a lot about each other already). Just be sure to communicate with him and if you have sex, use protection!
2007-01-09 02:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a big mistake and you may have hurt your relationship with your girl. You have both liked your friend but I am not sure how you and his girl got together when you were drunk. Evidently there is some attraction there. You need to get your head together to decide what you really want and the girlfriend may not give you that chance if she hears about this. You and girlfriends friend need to decide whether to tell her. She will be hurt very badly. How could she trust either of you again. I think you are right, she will hate it if either of you tell. But can you go on and not have it happen again?
2016-05-22 22:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes the best marriages say that their spouse is their best friend. But if he said he is afraid of hurting the friendship....................maybe he just doesn't want to be more than just friends. By the way friends don't sleep together.I wish you well and I hope that things work out for the two of you.
2007-01-09 02:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going thru that now. We have had sex and now he wants a relationship. DAMN!!! I don't want him. I only want him as a friend. I have a honey already. DAMN!!! He has ruined our friendship. We are trying to repair it now.
2007-01-09 02:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough call. how long have u been seeing him? how do you view losing virginity? if it's not so big of a deal losing it, go for it. if it is, then wait.
2007-01-09 02:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong if that's what you really want then go for it.
2007-01-09 02:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋