So yeah^^..sp my friends hate him...all of them. But i love him and he feels the same way. But I'm getting the feeling to break up with him and give up because no matter how hard I've tried..my friends will not like him or his friends and his friends hate mine...So me and my b/f have been going on hoping we'd make it with all the talks about us. He doesnt want to give up and neither do I but I'm getting tired of my friends going up to him saying he's a bad boyfriend and then I have to call him everynight to tell him that it was just a joke.It gets ANNOYING!!And...idk..do you guys think i should let him go? I mean, I'm the one who always have to call him because he doesnt and he cant. Thats the worst part...He CANT call me and i know thats not a reason to get angry because he wanted to and just couldnt. Maybe I'm being to obssesive over him...but sometimes its nice to have HIM call me! With all the things going on in my head...its hurting me....so should i stay? or go?Ps.-I DO LOVE HIM!
2007-01-09 02:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by You've Already Won Me Over 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you friends with these people...Your not mentally old enough to have a relationship, maybe if you wait a couple of years you can try again...Never in your whole life let friends tell you what to do or date...Also if you say you love him so much, you should be telling your friends to back off and to stop talking about him, your not even defending him...You are not a good girlfriend, sorry....You do not know what love is....
I would say you need to go, for his sake and your friends...
2007-01-09 02:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guessing this is a school romance?
Why can't he call?
Two things from me. First, if you ARE still in school, please stop using the word "love". To say it and not mean it is to devalue the word and it's effect. It is hard to tell someone, and you can read thousands of questions on here about the struggles people go through because telling someone you love them is a very humbling experience, assuming you mean it. If you do, you are turning your everything over to them, giving them keys to your heart and soul becuase you trust them enough to care for you like you care for you. And it's possible to get hurt when we love because of it. Conversely, if you don't REALLY love hime (miss him about every second you two are apart, get butterflies every time you see him or talk to him, put his own wants and needs as high as your own, sometimes even higher) and you say that, it lessens the impact of the word. Please don't rob yourself of that. It's a tough thing but it's also a wonderful thing.
As for your situation, I'd say you have to tell either your bf or your friends to back off. Point of note here. I was always raised hearing that when faced with more than one choice, the best thing to do is often the hardest. If you are in fact young, don't worry too much. You're allowed to make mistakes. We all have. That's how we learned and ensuing relationships got better because of what we learned. Either way, good luck and give yourself permission to make a decision (because one needs made), even if it's the wrong one, you'll still at least learn from it.
2007-01-09 02:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after studying ur problem i will try my best which helps you.
first of all see ur b/f is really interested in u or using u and if he is just passing time with u then its better to leave him and if u dont want to loose both i.e ur friends and b/f then there is only one solution that u all sit together there to solve it and this doesn't helps u said to ur friends that plz dont interfere in your relationship .
plz tell me is this works and reply with ur answer at my email yogesh2255@yahoo.co.in
2007-01-09 02:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young it does not matter if you like him then date him, tell your friends to get over it eventually you will find a real man when you go off to college anyways
2007-01-09 02:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up , find all the things you found in him in a guy that really does love you, becuase if he loved you as you did him he'd been there the next day for you
2016-05-22 22:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont break up with him...if he treats you the way your suppose to be treated then stay with him..and if your friends have a problem with you being happy..then they are messed
2007-01-09 02:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, they are not ur friends if they don't support your decisions. if u love him they should be happy for u. one of my friends hated my fiance, 6 years later i still have my fiance but i have one less friend.
2007-01-09 02:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋