what does it mean when he insists on cuddling all night ? he spent the night & i had no room every time i turned there he was huggin me
2007-01-09 02:22:18 · 12 answers · asked by Blaque Inque 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Duh? Could it mean he likes the way you feel and has a great deal of love in his heart? Sounds like a guy that has a POSITIVE emotional bond with you. He could see you as part of his comfort zone.
That madness about being insecure and controlling is ridiculous! That premise would lead logically to if he never wanted to cuddle you that he really did NOT have ANY feelings for you and looked at you as only a piece of $ss! Hum... Cuddling does not sound quite as bad as that other person thought huh?
At least tell him sometimes you like to have some room to roll around freely on the bed at night. It sounds like YOU have a problem with this. Obviously he doesn't.
2007-01-09 02:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what it means, but you shouldn't be afraid to tell him that you need your space while you are sleeping. Tell him that although you like cuddling, after awhile it would be nice to spread out. He shouldn't have a big problem with it seeing as you are offering him a compromise by not outlawing cuddling all together.
2007-01-09 10:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you need to talk to him about it. If you cannot communicate then the relationship has bigger issues than you not digging a night of cuddling.
2007-01-09 10:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how do you feel about him and your relationship?
There is couple of reasons:
first he likes you, maybe asked him where this relationship going and than purchase a King size bed - so you can have room.
Second- he might be homeless, no place to go!
third-he is not homeless and he sleeps alone, maybe give him a pillow with your picture on it and send him to his own place!
Good luck!
2007-01-09 10:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by smiley710 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be a horny freak, or he just really likes you. try to find out. if it turns out hes a sex addict or something, let him go. but if he just luvs you, cuddle back a little and try to sleep. AND IF that doesnt work, playfully and kindly tell him you need your rest.
2007-01-09 10:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by jordpr_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait this chick is bitching about a guy cuddling?? How many of us JUST want to cuddle? Especially after sex?
2007-01-09 10:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by DeCaying_Roses 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you guys have never...maybe he's waiting. I don't know what to tell ya about cuddeling other than I've only gotten that from guys who really like me.
2007-01-09 10:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls always think there is a hidden meaning in everything?
It is simple he loves you or is insecure and finds comfort in you.
2007-01-09 10:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to give you some space then complain next week he never cuddles women will never be satisfied
2007-01-09 10:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well some guys are cuddlers and just love to be close. it means he likes you alot but that could be all he just enjoys it alot.
2007-01-09 10:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mac H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋