A guy had been showing me alot of interest. Just looking at me all the time and even came up to talk to me and attempted to run into me. However I have this problem that I avoid him cause I don't know what to say. He didn't show that much interest when I saw him yesterday. Is it because he thinks I'm not interested? Also, I just have this fear of rejection. I just think it is impossible that this guy wouldn't have a girlfriend.
2007-01-09 02:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jen, I know it is difficult, but try talking to him. Nothing earth shattering, just a little chit chat. Shoot a smile when you see him. If he rejects you, so what? Then move on to the next sexy guy.
2007-01-09 02:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not to worry about rejection--you are beautiful no matter what, you are a gift...and in such you should be treated as if you are the best thing going, and if someone rejects you--then it only means that you can do better. Don't be afraid to try, if you try and fail, then you learn what not to do the next time. It is only a learning experience--not a personal reflection of you, of who you are, or what you could be to someone. If a relationship doesn't work out, it is for good reason, and something better is waiting. This guy might not think that you are interested--so show some interest!!! Find something to talk about, see if there are common interests, there is quite obviously a physical attraction, so go with it!! If nothing else maybe you will gain a good friend--you may find that when you get into it--maybe he isn't what YOU want!! Good Luck!
2007-01-09 02:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sending him mixed signals - then that could be why he acted the way he did yesterday. Guys are more scared of rejection then girls are and if he felt you were avoiding him (which you were) he would give up and move on. If you really like him, you should try and talk to him again. Also get some self-confidence - there is nothing a guy likes more than a girl who is totally confident about herself...... Hopefully he will show some interest again if that is what you want and maybe you and him can start dating..... good luck :)
2007-01-09 02:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is showing interest in you, and you ignoring him...
1. He could think that you are not interested or
2. He could think that you a snob
If he is showing you interest, you cant be rejected.....
I know its a lot easier said than done, but just talk to him.
His human, his a guy....
Where you know him from, how did you meet. Be friendly...
Next time you see him, smile or say hello. Its a small start, that can make a huge difference!
Good luck, let us know what happens!
2007-01-09 02:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I'll never understand about women...you get the world handed to you on a platter. True, many girls go out of their way to start conversations with men, but the majority of the time it is still "the guy's job". Also, even if he had a girlfriend, would it be so bad to just talk to someone? It's important not to look at every conversation with a guy as a possible relationship starter.
2007-01-09 02:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by John K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with literally telling him you don't know what to say - you don't know him that well (despite a physical attraction).
Try to ignore the fear of rejection, most of us have it and it badly gets in the way if we let it win.
Impossible he's not got a g/f? Why are you single? Why are single people single? Everyone has a reason, despite how fantastic they may (appear to) be.
Be bold, have a flirt, what's to lose?
2007-01-09 02:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Vixy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you fear rejection if the guy is running into you trying to get your attention. That's weird and YES, it's your fault. That's why guys can't get to emotionally involved with girls, we never know where your head is...and apparently, you don't either.
Please do yourself and everyone else a favor, go back and read your question and see how boneheaded it sounds.
2007-01-09 02:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did not show interest he will move on, say hi to him and you cannot assume he has a girlfriend without asking him.
2007-01-09 02:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him how you feel, cause if you like him and did not tell him he might find some one else, so if your intrested you need to talk to him don't avoid him. If your not intrested in him then be glad you have not seen him
2007-01-09 02:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Maria Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
challenge urself and work up the courag to be his frend, thn find out wetha he has a gf, it looks like hes showing interest in u tho;) hurry up and show it back
2007-01-09 02:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋