2007-01-09 01:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by samantha o 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Recognize that this is temporary. That magically your feelings toward each other will improve once both of you age a bit.
You probably idolized and adored her as a young child. As you mature, your original love will resurface.
The next big age of conflict will be when she becomes dependent on you. That is, at some point your roles will reverse. You will become the caretaker and maker of decisions that affect her life. She will begin to display the same type of irritation you feel towards her right now.
2007-01-09 02:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RN is on the spot. A little family therapy now will go a long way. You are growing up and trying to be your own person and do things your way. Mother has a master plan in her head on taking care of you and how things "should" be. It is normal for you two to have pretty different ideas at this time. If you are both open to it, some counseling will go a LONG way. And if you both don't connect with the first therapist then shop around and get one you both connect with. Good luck.
2007-01-09 10:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by metagrad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you live in the house. Assuming you do and possibly a teen try respect. She may know a little about life you yourself yet do not. Listen and allow her to finish what she has to say. Ponder it, try to take advise you know is given out of love and concern for you. Talk to her, she will listen if what you have to say is said without yelling. She too must respect you as a person. And please /thank you still go along way. Parents will be around for a while but NOT forever so enjoy the time you have and try to communicate and see each others point of view. Good Luck.
P.S. This works for adult children as well :)
2007-01-09 10:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too much alike. My eldest daughter and I have the same problem. We get on famously now she's moved but we struggled in the same house. If you are too young, or unable to leave home then try putting yourself in your mother's position and looking at the situation from her point of view. You could also try, when you are feeling calm and relaxed, discussing your feelings with her, tell her that your constant fighting is making you unhappy and perhaps you could discuss between you some way of resolving the situation.
2007-01-09 10:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend entirely on what you have been fighting about. If you cannot even be in the same room without fighting about anything at all...strongly suggest family therapy.
2007-01-09 10:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help if you said what you were fighting mostly about? do you think she is too strick and overbearing, and thats why you fight?
2007-01-09 10:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lin B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, it's not worth it.
2007-01-09 10:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by bhbghgjbvmnbncvb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋