ive known this lad since infant school, and recently we started flirting. one thing lead to another and after a lot of concideration we decided to sleep together. the thing is everything was going fine until he couldnt keep it up. i just want to know what does it mean if the man cant keep it up threw sex? does it mean i wasnt doing it for him.
2007-01-09 01:24:04 · 9 answers · asked by smith15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he could have been nervous or had a few drinks
2007-01-09 01:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the clues might be right there in what you say. He's known you since infant school. After a lot of consideration you DECIDED to sleep together.
It seems to me that a. having known you since you were both so little, he may have come to regard you almost like a sister, and that b. if there was a spark of passion between you, it may have been killed off by the two of you over-analysing it. You might also need to consider what you both want, as well as what kind of people you are. Do you love each other? Do you want a permanent relationship, or do you just want the sex? How will you both feel if you have sex and then find there's nothing else to keep you together? How will that affect your friendship? You need to be clear on this before you go any further, if you're going to avoid one or both of you getting badly hurt.
That said, if you really do want to, then if the "feeling" comes back for the two of you, throw caution to the wind along with your clothes and just go with the flow.
2007-01-09 09:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could of been a lot of factors, maybe he ejaculated and had to stop but didn't want to say through embarrassment maybe. It starts to hurt for a few minutes after ejaculating so it's hard to keep it up. I would just ask him about it.
2007-01-09 09:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look et how you feel, and feel it, and move on from a situation that could draw you into a dark place where there is no solutoions, but only problems.
you dont have a problem,and if he does try to cut your grass, not his.. remember you are o.k.
2007-01-09 09:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be effected by drink or drugs or he could just be finding it difficult moving from what you had to what you have now.screwing is cool but it opens the emotion box and can bite you in the ***
2007-01-09 09:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by mr sniff it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a brilliantly written question! Says everything without letting anyone one know the details of your attraction....
2007-01-09 09:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by michael s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just because he's incapable of holding an erection doesnt mean youre not attractive--- keep you chin up love-- things wil lturn around soon! *gud luck*
2007-01-09 09:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by SealedWithAKiss <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know was he drunk? That makes that happen sometimes or maybe he was tired or maybe he came and didnt tell you?
2007-01-09 09:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably nervous but that does nothing for your ego give him another try
2007-01-09 09:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋