why do guys cheat on girls that do everything for them and more??? i dont understand it i mean it makes no since. i was with a guy for almost two years gave him everything including my heart and he broke it into peaces why??? why hurt us girls that really care and go to ones that dont!!!!
2007-01-09 01:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a lot of men and women out there who do not appreciate others. They think that if a person loves them so much and does so much for them, then they have the upper hand and have a right to do what they want to them. They are also not scared of losing that person because they know how much they care. Also, sometimes people like challenge. The worse you treat them the more they want to change your feelings. Thats why a lot of times if you treat a guy bad, they will try all they can to get you... They want to change you and vise versa with girls. Which to me is stupid, if you love somebody you should want to do all you can for them and the same should be reciprocated. No games should be played
I was once in a relationship like that. But I will tell you, it is not always like that, and everybody is not like that. There are people out there who are serious and sincere. Luckily I found out!
2007-01-09 01:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey i'm so sorry! I don't know why they do it.... I know there are some guys out there that really do care but i've yet to find one. I hope you heal soon from this and come out stronger in the end and i also think it makes us wiser in picking the next guy. Some guys are just sick jerks! Get some sleep and eat chocolate and good luck with letting your heart grow back
2007-01-09 09:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if he broke your heart then he really didn't care about you in the 1st place. He took advantage of you, because you were doing everything for him and he just let you do everything for as long as he could. Untill he got caught and honestly I don't think he cared about you because if he did then he wouldn't have cheated on you. And they go for the girls that don't give a shi* because they don't care and they just want some *ss.
2007-01-09 09:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you have been hurt....everyone goes through this rough time in their life at point or another.
You learn from each relationship your in...so use this as a life experience that take with you as you date other men.
Sounds like this guy wasn't the right one...because if you two were meant to be,,,he would have done everything not to hurt you..
Hang in there...you'll meet the right guy soon!!
2007-01-09 09:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat because there alwayds lookin for greener pastures, and men do it MORE than women, a well known statistic....most guys just never seem happy with anything, all you need to know is its NOT YOU, its them, all them.. and what goes around comes around again..
2007-01-09 09:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by mummsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny huh, but stupid it sounds some men are just babies, but there's light at the end of the tunnel, it's not the end of the world.
keep your head up, you're not the problem he is and he doesn't deserve you.
2007-01-09 09:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by deebo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do the same things to guys its a 2way street
2007-01-09 09:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋