I was seeing a guy and in four months we spent 1 night together, i dont think he was cheating but he just never seemed to have the time for me and there was always an excuse, whats worse is that we work together and actually sit together we have both booked this week off work so don't have to worry about it too much until next monday i told him it was over on sunday but he has not responded to any calls or texts if he said he loved me and meant it then he would have asked me why I ended it or wanted some sort of explanation. I know I'm better without him but i did love him and still do but im not gonna be anyones doormat. Do you think im over reacting or what??
2007-01-09 01:00:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most men??? not a fair statement! ive had a few bad ones but then also good ones. dont label one person as people!!
2007-01-09 01:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the ones you like or love just are not what you thought they would be.
i certainly wouldn't be putting up with how he treats you, and your right, if he did truly love or even care for you he would have at least questioned why you ended things. even a text back to say that he understands or something. not giving you any feedback is just wrong.
i say forget about him, i know it will be hard with you two sitting next to each other in work, but just remember your a better person than him and when you find someone who treats you great and the way you should be treated, he will still be ignoring his 'girlfriends' and never getting anything out of relationships.
Good luck
2007-01-09 09:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is jus busy working i mean it is only 4 months into the relationship which i suppose isnt really that long. He probaly does love you but you cant make whats happend unhappened wot do you want him to do shout and scream at you,hit you or cry? Some people are hurt but everyone has different ways in which to show thier emotions.
2007-01-09 09:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait wait wait. You were seein him for 4 months, you work together and you even SIT together?! Is there maybe the tiniest chance that spending so much time with him professionally made the idea of spending all his free time you a touch suffocating. And maybe, just MAYBE, when you broke it off it was a case of 'yay! now i don't have to dump her before we got too close!'?
2007-01-09 10:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-09 09:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most men are not dogs. Shame on you for not understanding human behavior.. When, most men like a girl - they are doing everything to get close to her and be with her.. If a man is not doing that, then it usually means he is just playing you in a casual way. As far as the sex, he got it, and you got it... Your just whining because you liked him more than he liked you and you got hurt. Toughen up - to bad. Don't hate the player, hate the game!
2007-01-09 09:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by dannywahlberg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent some movies, get your hair done and move on. Go out for a night on the town, or if that's not your style just try browsing some profiles online. I met my boyfriend on Yahoo! Personals. It really works-you just need to weed out the weirdos.
2007-01-09 09:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people always need closure....
If you call someone and leave a message and they dont call back they are Dead or they just dont want to talk to you anymore....
Take a hint and move on......
Maybe he needs to make some changes in his life and one of them is you...
Take a hint and move on
2007-01-09 09:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by j d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not feel the same as you...your txt to end it was try to get a reaction from him in any form...but it has not worked...best to think forward and try to move on
2007-01-09 09:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by judy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop equateing men with gogs. A dog is loyal. Men are selfish spoiled little perverts and thats because females let them be.
2007-01-09 09:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋