i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 6 months ago. He was very controlloing and possessive of me. I couldnt take it anymore.
Im nearly 25 years old, i have a good job and my own flat.
All my guy mates say that im very attractive and i do attract guys when im out on the town with my mates. i have 4 guys chasing me at the mo, but, they are not my Mr Right!!!
Will i ever find my Mr Right???
Is it too soon really to be looking for my Mr Right just 6 months after my break-up???
Should i just be having fun???
2007-01-09 00:58:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just have fun.
2007-01-09 01:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by outofmymind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you need to slow down and think about what it is you really want. You should always have fun and enjoy yourself. Only you know if its the right time to be looking for a man right now...but give yourself some time to get to know the real you again. Youve just left a bad relationship and there is a natural healing process that takes place, but you need to decide what you want. Don't let this become an issue, you'll find the right guy when the timing is right for you.
2007-01-09 09:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with a man for a long time, and also at an age where a lot of personal growth has taken place. While it would not be too soon if the right man came along, it would benefit you to be on your own for a while. Live life on your terms, be happy with the single life you choose to live, and take care of your own affairs. Get to know yourself and what you want out of life. When you are happy by yourself and need no one to compliment you, Mr. Right will find YOU. It's usually when we aren't looking for it that love appears.
2007-01-09 09:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun definitely!!!!
I broke up with my ex of 7 years, and decided to just go out and have fun. I never took anything too seriously and made my first priority to have fun and enjoy being single.
I ended up falling madly in love when I was actually trying to just check out the scene.
So, what I'm saying is that love hits you when you least expect it or want it.
You have been in a relationship for ages, and a possessive one at that. Enjoy this time alone, and really think about how you ended up in your previous relationship so you don't make the same mistake again.
Enjoy it, because he'll come when you're ready for him x
2007-01-09 09:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't set it as a goal to go out on a search for "Mr. Right" but I would tell you to go out and have fun. You're gonna find him when you least expect to, so just enjoy your life and let things happen. Finding a life partner isn't like looking for a job, it is more of a thing where you just let it happen naturally.
2007-01-09 09:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just got out of relationship, girl go have lots of fun, let them chase after u play some games and don't wait for Mr. Right, he will come when the time is right
2007-01-09 09:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by bad person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun - you have been in a long term relationship - enjoy a bit of freedom before looking to settle down again - give your emotions a little break - have fun but be careful
2007-01-09 09:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I def fink you shud have a bit of fun i mean being locked up in that kind of relationship for so long must of been hard so now you shud let loose for a while and enjoy yourself. But also i can see the other side of things because you have been in a relationship for that long i suppose it is strange now being free and single and i suppose u want the security (a man) back in your life again.
2007-01-09 09:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont no if his mr right but after 6 months you should just have fun with your life
2007-01-09 09:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by maddi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic...you have plenty of time to find someone else.
It sounds like you've just escaped from a pretty bad relationship..take your time before becoming too involved again.
Remember that there's more than one Mr Right...be choosy..you are in control...
Good luck...
2007-01-09 09:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by Doodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop looking, you will find love in the most obvious place. Sounds like a riddle, but you see if I am right. Go out, have fun and stop trying to find "the one" you will only be disappointed.
2007-01-09 09:04:04 · answer #11 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋