There's a girl in my class who I really like. We used to like each other for a while even though we didn’t talk that much. Anyway, we've lately stopped talking to each other and I don't know if she still likes me. Well I don't know what's going on cause she asked me last week whether I hate her. Should I just talk to her and ask her whether she doesn't like me....i don't know whether I should tell her what I think about her cause I don't know how she'll react.
2007-01-09 00:54:54 · 10 answers · asked by ari90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you dont ask, you will never know...Life is about chances, take a few....
2007-01-09 01:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have one word that will solve this whole thing...KISS ( Keep It Simple Silly). You two sound like you spend most of your time guessing what kinds of feelings the other one is feeling towards yourself.
Unless you are able to communicate with each other on a telepathic level I suggest a good sit down. One on One. Mono y Mono. That's right just YOU and HER. Since you are the one that instigated this plea for help I'm going to suggest that YOU take the bull by the horns and initiate this sit down. Maybe over ice cream, or even a long walk together. Whatever you feel you'll both be comfortable with. Just make sure that you steer clear of crowds so that you are not distracted and can focus on each other and how you are feeling. Whatever you do, don't project your feelings onto her. Let her describe how she feels about you in her own words, and if it isn't anything more than platonic don't make her feel uncomfortable. That will only ruin any friendship you already have and you don't want to do that. There's nothing more valuable and rare, than a close friend of the opposite sex that doesn't have any ulterior motives or hidden agendas.
Make your move soon though, because the more time that goes by the more difficult and awkward it will be to get together. More often than not, lack of good communication leads to misunderstandings, hurt feeling, and ultimately resentment and anger.
It sounds to me like you're both a little gun shy about getting your feet wet. Neither one wants to make the first move, Be a gentleman and take that burden off of her shoulders, make the first move. It's only a noble act if it's done discretely. That means no boasting about being the one that made the first move. Make it about both of you. Enjoy just being on the same page at the same time. It's amazing how much we can accomplish if we don't care who gets the credit. Good Luck~~
P.S. Remember, the first person you kiss at the beginning
of the new year is the one that you'll be spending the rest of the year with. Maybe she's the one!! have the potential to grow into feelings of resent u
2007-01-09 02:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by irish_wop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the first step if your interested in her!
Start the ball rolling
Initiate and open the communication door...its a must...
For if you don't ...
You will never know .....
Maybe this is your soul mate for life?
Don't pass up any opportunity to make a friend....life is too short.....good luck!
2007-01-09 01:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to her if you really like her and you stop talking to her she will stop liking you so you will lose your chance with her. the best thing to do would be to talk about the way you feel to her she will understand.
2007-01-09 01:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by soccer_chick3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to her again, if you like her that's the best way for her to know!
2007-01-09 00:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look like u have nothing to lose tell her and ask her you wont know 4 sure till u do
2007-01-09 01:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hun, um just give it a try!!! dont hesitate just tell her the truth. and see if she feels the same way you do!!!! just give it time and maby she will come around. good luck and i hope my advise helps!!!!
2007-01-09 01:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by lizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to her; honesty is always best.
2007-01-09 01:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking,speaking,speaking!That's the truth!
2007-01-09 01:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, asked her out than talked about it. oh come on you are a man, be a gentleman. face the live. go .... go..... go......
2007-01-09 01:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by OLGA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋