I like him alot but i can't face myself to him?

Question

Hi all, there is this boy in my school whom i really like. I'm afraid to let him know my affections for him for fear that he may reject me cos i'm ugly. I know this is so because all the boys before this one, who, once, they knew that i liked them, said that i was ugly. I have determined to make myself an anorexic and that i self harm by scratching myself so that there'll be marks. I really like him but how?????

Answer 1

First, don't come on to strong. Maybe just say hi when you see him so that he notices you. Then wait to see if next time, he says hi to you. If he doesn't like you, then that's life. It might be best to remember that there are guys who will like you for who you are, really.
With the other stuff, its not nice to hate yourself, and when you hate yourself, then other people tend to sense this. If your depressed and unhappy, people will not come near your or want to know you. Happy people are more attractive to others. Talk to your parents, siblings or friends so they can offer you some support. Remember that you are you, not all the money in the world could change that, so you can either love yourself and see the good in yourself, or hate yourself. I know which one i would choose.

Answer 2

First of all, you need to start liking yourself before anyone else can. If you don't feel pretty or loveable, how can other people see what a great person you really are?

So step one is to focus on your good sides. You may be good at maths, playing a musical instrument, dealing with young children or something else. Take pleasure in being good at what you do.

Step two is to approach this boy that you like. Don't just go up to him and say that you fancy him, but try striking up a conversation with him or bump into him somewhere. And then take it from there. Slowly.

The best way to failure is becoming an anorexic and harming yourself.

Answer 3

You know they may have said you're ugly and maybe you think that about yourself..I've felt the same way before but anorexia and hurting yourself won't make you prettier. Once you begin to love yourself and feel good about yourself it will show and others will see it. Pamper yourself, although your in school and funds may be limited as far as buying yourself stuff find things that make you feel good. A new hair cut, painting your nails pretty, and if you are truly overweight than exercise because that will also help you feel better. I wouldn't suggest trying to tell him how you feel until you feel better and more confident about yourself and it wil also make it easier for you. And if he does turn you down than o well, they are just boys and some day maybe they will grow up and realize that a hot girl with no brain and no personality isn't what they really want.

Answer 4

well if you rweally like this person then you better let them know cuz one day you are going to have very very strong feelings for someone else and aint going to know what to do about it and then that person is going to be gone and you are not going to forgive yoyrself. i went throught that but i was so afraid that they would say yes just because i was a cheerleader and i wanted then to say yes because it was me and i never trie and that person started dating my best friend and now they are getting martried and i cant be her friend no more cuz i fell in love with her fiance. you dont want anything like that to happen right....?

Answer 5

I think u should just talk wid him, know him clearly as a friend. Most boys like good looks. If u have a pure heart then sure u will get him...

Answer 6

Get help. Talking to someone is talking, either do it or regret it.

Answer 7

confused

Answer 8

I dnt think he will love u... Sorry!...