you have a serious relationship with a girl, and you have to spend 2 months away from her. In that period of time you realise that she is the one, will you stay abstinent and wait for her?. Even when you like flirting and you have a lot of available girls around you?.
Honest answers please.
2007-01-09 00:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by b-clear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank u guys, and thanx for the level of integrity in your answers. Now I can understand more my bf.
2007-01-09 03:17:19 · update #1
do what feels right, if you feel bad playing around then you souldnt and visa versa
2007-01-09 00:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a fine line, here. I was stationed overseas, and as you can imagine I am totally committed to my wife, but it's hard. So, I wasn't totally good. But that doesn't mean I don't love her. It's not like I'm gonna leave her for the first ho I meet. If you are truly sure about your feeling for your woman, you will be able to relate to other women, even flirt with someone, without becoming unclear of your standing. If you want to remain abstinent, that's your decision, but just remember that if you do decide to fool around, it's important that you take all the safety precaution that you can, becuase there are a lot of diseases out there and it wouldn't be fair to your lady that you pass something on to her.
2007-01-09 01:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would. It's better to give him the benefit of the doubt, but some guys just can't be trusted.
2007-01-09 01:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by To Be Free 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is you know the best. wait for her, if you thnk she is worth it. allthough this can cause some conflits later on, as u sacrified urself u'll start expecting a bit more from her.
2007-01-09 01:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by mailofmeylis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If I was convinced that she was "the one", then I would have no issues with remaining faithful in the relationship.
2007-01-09 00:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay abstinent for sure, sex isnt everything, its much more special with someone you truly love
2007-01-09 00:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by bad b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might still flirt, but that's the extent of it!
2007-01-09 02:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i met her i would have messed around now i have met her i could not mess around so no i would not be tempted nor give in to temptation
2007-01-09 00:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋