My son is living with his girlfriend and trying to find a job and her mother is making them move in with her and she is on crack most of the time my son can only move in if he puts the electric in his name. The baby has had around 7 houses already because of this women. My son feels he has not options but to go along with because they are not married and the mother is trying to control the daughter she is 17 and has one more year of this. The girls mom gets child suport for her daughter and doesn't even give it to her daughter to help out she just doesn't want to loose it. She spends the money on drugs Help!
2007-01-09 00:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by grandmarose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First off, the mother can't "make" them move in with her. If the daughter is 17 and has a child all she needs to do is petition the courts for emancipation. That is very simple to do. Next, your son can keep looking for a job, the girl can look for a job, there are good daycares for the child, could you look after the baby while they both worked? They could apply for some temporary assistance such as food stamps, WIC and medicaid for the baby. Help is available to them instead of moving in with a "crack addicted mom". And no one "makes you" put an electric bill in your name. When you decide to play house its time you stand up and be adults, a baby is depending on you.
L.
2007-01-09 01:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by tink3610 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An annonymous call to the Child Protective Services will get the action started that this 7 month old needs. If they take the child into custody , you can then let them know that you ,as the Grandmother are willing to take the baby in. Be prepared for alot of red tape that comes along with it.In the long run it would be in the best interest of the innocent baby. Good Luck!
Ed
2007-01-09 00:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by ED S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can call Child Protective Service, and report the conditions, try and get as much evidences as possible. Tell them the concerns of yours, for the child's best interests. Have you tried to talk to your son, tell him do not move in, the Mother will only use him. He does have rights, because he is the Father. If you can try and contact a lawyer, to find out what your rights are, this is what your son should do. He can get the child, if the Mother is not able to do it. and if your son, does not want to, then you try and get custody of the child.
2007-01-09 01:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call cps and explain to them the situation and see if there is any way u can get custody of ur grandchild..my grandma did the same thing..either that or talk to ur son and ask him whats gonna happen to the baby if something happens to them and talk him into giving u custody so that the state doesnt get the baby and then go to court and get it legally.
2007-01-09 02:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i might want to strongly recommend not drugging the cat for this can make it some distance worse.If the cat can't keep in thoughts something about the holiday it can make it worse.i might want to signify taking the cat out to the vehicle a minimum of once an afternoon up till the holiday and enable it stay contained in the vehicle with you operating and enable it get use to the sound.also try making it experience extra like abode take a blanket and doubtless a fashionable toy and put in the seat with it,and take some treats and enable her understand she is doing strong even as she is calm.
2016-12-02 01:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to family court, and file a petition for custody. You should also report the girl to family services so they can investigate her drug use. When you go to court, you'll need to present your case, and all of the issues. Best of luck!
2007-01-09 01:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋