I know that my husband never takes off his silver wedding band cause he bitches cause I can't wear mines to work.I know that he's playing mind games with her to.How can I let her know that it's fine with me that she's in love with my husband and that she can have his *** cause I've put up with his **** far too long and would like to wish her the best of luck.This way they no longer have to hide their true feelings for one another. Any advice will do.
2007-01-09 00:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no I don't blame her!
2007-01-09 06:18:39 · update #1
get a divorce, then.
2007-01-09 00:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the situation has gone to being so bad that you're fed up with your husband, then maybe it's time to cut your losses and leave.
Then, of course, there's the possibility that she isn't in love with your husband at all and is simply having a fling--some women prefer to get involved with married men because they perceive them as "safe"--their reasoning is that a man's not going to leave a wife, so they never have to worry about commitment. Strange, but true.
For some people, it's not the having, it's the getting--they enjoy the "thrill of the chase," and quickly lose interest once that portion of the relationship is over.
2007-01-09 08:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chrispy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the saying "Never know what you've got until it's gone" I think your husband needs to experience this. From what you've said, I don't think he has cheated yet. Maybe he just likes the thrill of the play. If you leave (just for awhile) he will see how stupid he was. I think you still love him and marriage is forever. Leave for awhile to make him realize how stupid he was and what he really had was way better then anything he could've had with this woman. I mean what a ho. To go after a married man. It seems to me that probably neither are Christian. Are you? Bringing Christian values into your home will make your marriage happier. You both should find God. Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-09 08:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well; you do have two options now;
first if you don't want to stay with him anymore, you should ask for divorce,
2nd if you still want him, or you wish you can be back together, you should let him try to be with her, if he found pleasure and security, love and respect with someone else, then you don 't really need to be with him, but if not, you can get him back easily; time always brings things to the right track, so i guess you are brave to do so, and smart, because if you acted the other way, you will cause more problems to both of you and that will end to a bad divorce, so take your time and see what happens; good luck:)
2007-01-09 09:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by zinaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Your question doesnt make any sense, I think you have left out details. Can you reread it and possibly give us clearer information?
Are you asking if your husband is wearing his wedding ring all day at work because you believe he is flirting with another woman and he must not be wearing it or else this woman would pay him no attention?
This is my best guess so this is my answer:
I bet he is wearing it, sometimes a wedding ring makes a man alot more attractive to a woman. Have you tried speaking to your husband about this?
2007-01-09 08:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, but you do sound a little bitter for someone who doesn't care. Obviously you do care, and yes she probably does see it and doesn't care, just like so many others in this world we live in. Get a divorce and move on, or fight for what is yours. Explain to him how it is making you feel.
2007-01-09 08:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give is for you not to blame "her" at all; he is your husband and the one who made vows with you - it's all on him... so sorry....
2007-01-09 14:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced
2007-01-09 08:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The clearest indication would be to file for divorce and have one of you move out.
2007-01-09 08:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jcord29 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce him and send her a congratulations card.
2007-01-09 08:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u love your man then you need to fight for him. I don't mean fist fight for him you know what he likes so go for his attention and love.
2007-01-09 08:34:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋