Ok ladies, I have an ex girlfriend who broke up with me about a month ago who I really want to get back together with. Even though I know Valentine's Day is still a month away or so, I was thinking of sending this email to her. Let me know what you think and if it is something that you would really like to get from a guy or an ex boyfriend.
Hey (name), I just wanted to take this time to wish you a happy Valentine's Day. (name), with everything that has happened over the last couple of months I never got the chance to thank you. I wanted to thank you for all the time that we had together. You made me believe I was capable of doing anything, and you have made a real difference in my life. And whatever God has in store for us on this crazy journey we call life, I just wanted to tell you that you will always have a special place in my heart. Remember (name), hope and faith are good things, next to love probably the best of things, and no good thing ever dies. Happy Valentines Day!
2007-01-09 00:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would not mind getting it from a boyfriend whose motives i knew were honest. i would love to get it from an ex who was happy in a new relationship, or who i didn't have to worry about as far as him trying to get back with me.
you admit right there you're clinging to hope that you will get back together.... but it seems like she made the decision to leave you.
i say, give her the note next year when you have TRULY gotten over her.
2007-01-09 00:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not able to "get" her to speak in confidence you. She's going to open up if she feels comfy - but sounds to me like you guys have some disorders which can be complicating your relationship. The advice i might supply is - don't be 1) too determined, or 2) too pushy. Simply be your self, have a excellent time with her - but don't be in every single place her in anyway. Good enough, she has this loopy concept that you simply best need her for sex; good, do not carry up intercourse at all, hold your arms to yourself, and enjoy the dialog. I'm now not really sure what her challenge is - i don't get it how can a lady be with anyone for 2 years, and be convinced that this man or woman is most effective along with her due to the fact that of sex; that's simply foolish. It sounds to me like she, herself, would not comprehend what she wants - and it may be type of a hazardous crisis for you, as you could get your coronary heart broken very effectively. Simply be careful, good enough. Just right luck.
2016-08-10 11:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really pathetic. The lack of genuine thought that has gone into it is clear to see. You're writing this mail in early January and actually lying to her when you say "everything that has happened over the last couple of months". Given that she broke up a month ago you're attempting to manipulate your circumstances and the truth in order to persuade her to care about you again. Lies aren't the best thing to base relationships on and it's no surprise that she dumped you - your email is false, lacks genuine feeling and is jam packed full of clichés you clearly have never experienced or understood or you wouldn't be spewing them onto the page like this in a desperate attempt to get someone back who's clearly seen through your false, pseudo romantic and superficial attitude to her.
2007-01-09 00:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Diarmid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's so gay.
God doesn't give a damn about your relationship.
If this really is you being genuine, you sound like a sap and she's probably better off without you.
Just be honest with her. I'm guessing you just want her back as you've not got laid since she dumped you. Pull your self together and stop moaping about.
2007-01-09 01:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by hard as nails 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"ex girlfriend who broke up with me " If she wanted to have a relationship with you she would not be your ex girlriend. Get over it, move on. IF you care as much about her as you say you do you will allow her to do so too. Caring about someone is not wanting to smother them.
2007-01-09 00:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd just stick some flowers in your *** and moon her, because that poem is super gay.
2007-01-09 00:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that's nice. It's not too pushy, and just lets her know how you feel.
2007-01-09 00:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just do it, you can't live your life with ifs and what could have beens.
2007-01-09 00:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by yvetski 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wasting your time
2007-01-09 00:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by sudha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very sweet!
2007-01-09 00:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋