Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, though seems like he still wants me to see him, like when he's talking on the phone, etc.
2007-01-09 00:06:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on what his feelings are... i've experienced this LOTS of times !! :) :) :) but made up afterwards :) ask ur friends for help, ask them to like ask him what he thinks about you...thats what i do and it helps me build a better friendship! :)
2007-01-09 00:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jani N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut this guy loose and move on. Your going to get nothing but hurt if you don't. You want to give him the benefit of the doubt and think he is not a jerk but he is. If you really want him - stop having anything to do with him and make him work for it. Your doing both side of the relationship.
2007-01-09 00:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go baby .. He wants u to get over him first, u r friendship can come latter , but never as long u r still in love with him. Mind u r life and u will be fine, its better this way. U would have suffer more if u stay in this "friendship".
Good luck !
2007-01-09 00:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by AlinaU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has a gf then you need to ignore him completely!! if he liked you he would end his relationship with her to be with you!! Stop making him feel like he had control over you
2007-01-09 00:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Laura R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect to the Filipino. This is just something you need to work out yourself. pray to God for guidance
2007-01-09 00:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just went a little beserk and he just backed off.good.let it go.
2007-01-09 00:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋