I really hurt my boyfriend a few weeks ago. I was childish, immature, and didn't give him the treatment he deserved. I didn't show him how much I loved him and took him for granted. I know he cares about me or he wouldn't be willing to work it out. He is giving me a second chance, but I don't know what to do to show him how I feel. I really want to show him how much I love him because he is still really hurt. Does anybody have any tips on how to really let a guy know you love him and how to make him feel special?
2007-01-09 00:01:23 · 4 answers · asked by sdw2840 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first question you should ask yourself, is 'why am I unhappy?' You are in a relationship that appears to fulfill your needs yet you are not happy. Your happiness can't be found outside yourself, it has to come from inside you: we are not made happy by relationships rather, happy people make happy relationships.
So why not look at it this way:
A: 'I want to be happy'--your aim
B: Once you have your aim, or your target, your next
thing is....
C: Determination--this will give you the courage,
compassion and wisdom to think, say and do the
right things that will bring about your aim
D: Once you achieve your aim, then your life changes
2007-01-09 00:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by darestobelieve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to him abt how you feel and be real honest with him so that he will understand your situation and doings also. By being honest you will realise that certain things can be solved easily. Promise him that you would change and really do it. Do something special for him so that he may feel loved like cook for him or something like that
2007-01-09 00:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Danzzz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start by telling how how sorry you are everyday and that you feel really bad about it.. then you should try taking him out your treat.. but if he doesn't wan't you to buy him stuff let him be. just follow what he wan't. never say no... unless he wan't to take a break or break up with you. always force yourself to be with him. he would really know that you love him if you force yourself to be with him. don't ever give up...
2007-01-09 00:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With every couple, there is something you haven't done "in the bedroom" that he has wanted to do. Do it.
2007-01-09 00:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋