This is affecting our realtionship because when we are together the phone never stops ringing and its always different girls and he sees there just his friends. Than he says i love them all am i suppose to be worried?
2007-01-08 23:49:33 · 15 answers · asked by sugar21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on your guy! But if he is like mine, you should not be worried. My bf has a lot of female friends, and they have become my friends. For me, there is no reason t worry because he simply gives me noreason to worry.
Maybe you should try to make friends with one of these girls. That will make the situation easier as you will start seeing them as friends, and not as potential competition.
Good luck!
2007-01-09 00:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are proven real friends there is little you can do as if you make him choose you will luck out unfortunately,,it is always the one who forces choice through insecurity and as the friend is still around the downside is all yours to take.however,,these friends should think nothing of being rebuffed as he is with you,,they should not want to take up his 'you' time and they should not be an interference in your relationship,you must have friends and know how they work and how it should not work,,,,does he treat them with anything more than friendship,,would he treat them differently if they were male..does he/they flirt,even if you are there..male and female friendships are basically the same,you dont see the look you see the person for who they are and why you like and get on with them and if this sounds like your boyfriend it may be wise to let your fears go.
2007-01-08 23:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am in same situation except that guy is not my boyfriends, but would hopefully be in future. He has told me that he has a lot of friends that are girls and that is caused huge arguments with his ex-girlfriend. My advise of what I learned from him. Don't accuse him unless you're 100% sure. If you've been dating for quite some time, perhaps get to know these girls. I know it's hard but you have try to trust him! Gd luck!
2007-01-08 23:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just telling you that they are all friends but deep down inside you know they isn't his friends. he is a play boy and all of those girls is his other women. if he cared about you he would tell his so call friend to call him later when you isn't around. or turn his phone off. he is going with those girls and you should be worried.
2007-01-08 23:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was fine until he said he loves them all because im sure he says that he loves you too...so what makes you different from them if he says the same thing to them. my bf has all female friends but he doesnt say that he loves them. im not worried (personally i think they are unattractive and he has agreed lol) but its ok for me because i trust him and they dont ring his phone either. the opposite sex as friends is something that is hard to deal with, sharing his emotions such as love with other females i think is unacceptable!
2007-01-09 00:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Melle Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"trust is the strongest form of love"
Go with your guts, yeah I'm sure sometimes you're jealous, I would be too, but at the same time he's not avoiding you, or choosing them over you is he? Maybe you could be friends with them too, it might be a good thing. :) Don't jump to conclusions, but don't shut your eyes to something obvious either.
2007-01-09 00:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend
if he is really your boyfriend he shouldnt be intrested in the other girls as he is intrested in you, if not then ask your self if there is any sense from being his girlfriend if he cant save the common love between you and respect your relationship.Mazbe zou should discuss it with him and come to a conclusion.Be honest
good luck
2007-01-09 00:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by ema 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how my bf is when we are together, but its not like he asks them to call...if he does and if he talks to them a lot more then you i definently would be worried....id look into it a little bit
2007-01-08 23:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you trust him then you do not have to worry. A relationship is based on trust, if there is no trust, then there is no relationship. You just have to think to yourself, who is he coming home to and spending most of his time with.
2007-01-08 23:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jfranc1 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe .... but trust him until some real advice that he is cheatin... cause u can have alot of friends of the opposite sex and u can love em like friends,..
2007-01-08 23:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by sofiaa_k 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋