If I killed my self do you think life would be easier for the people who don't like me to live?

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Answer Truthfully

Answer 1

Hey, screw the people who you think don't want you living. What do you care what they think? Why appease them? If they don't want to be in the same life as you then they can kill themselves, not you. My advise to you is to live, but live without caring about what other people think or do. You can't control what they do so don't worry about it. Live because God put you here and you have a purpose. Die only because God says it's time. His is the only timetable that matters.

Answer 2

Truthfully - they couldn't care less. They will just go on with their lives. The only ones to notice a difference will be the ones who love and care for you. And if you feel there aren't any, then there is always yourself - the most important person in your life. You will notice the difference of not being alive and not having the opportunities that life brings. Your life is too unique and important to throw it away on people who you don't even like.

Answer 3

OH MY GOSH! You shouldnt even be thinking if you killed yourself how would the people that didnt like you live without you there!.. How about the people that love you, and care for you and would be absolutely deverstated!! If they dont like you why would you want to do some thing so extreme to make there lives easier!! I think you seriously need to talk to some one! Or actually read your question back to yourself and think about what your actually saying!!

Answer 4

you will possibly desire to cease questioning approximately what every person else thinks and initiate off surrounding your self with the people you experience comfortable with. in line with risk you will possibly desire to connect a club or purely go out some nights to a mixed club so as which you will encompass your self with people who have the comparable hobbies which you do. 2 of my sturdy acquaintances are gay and that they are the happiest people on my own and mutually. that is not properly worth taking your existence I promise you that. you're actually not cursed and as quickly as you detect that somebody who you savour being around and visa a versa you would be sturdy emotionally.

Answer 5

A did you know that you are hella takening up to much room in thoughs peoples head so thay must like you but why in the hell would you want to kill your self for any bodys **** talking or what ever thay got that thay brought in to there life to make them try to fk with your head man your more important then making you even think of giving your life up or you truning in a sislala and runing from thing or people in your path of life on the real okay

Answer 6

You didn't say how old you are. I take it maybe you are a teen. Surly no one wants to see you dead. There are always going to be people that don't like you and you don't like them but that certainly is no reason to kill yourself. Your parents if still living would grieve for the rest of their lives and blame themselves. No other person is ever worth taking your own life. If you are not liked then look at yourself and see why they don't like you and maybe try to change your ways.

My best friend killed herself many years ago. I still grieve and miss her very much and so do her children and grand-children.

Find a counselor and go talk with them. But whatever you do.........Do Not Take Your own life. There is just to much living to do.

Answer 7

Your death would not change anything in the lives of the people who you say hate you. However, your death would devastate those who love you.

The battle is between two wolves inside us all.

One is evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego.

The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.

Have you figured out which wolf will win?

It's the one you feed.

Answer 8

It's unnatural for one to hate another person enough to wish them dead, so your depression could be misleading you to believe this.

But, the honest answer is no, I don't think their lives would be easier. They would feel guilt and sadness from that time on, feeling they should have done or said something different to prevent it.

If you're really feeling down enough to consider this, please please tell someone you care about, and get some help hun.

Big hugs.

Answer 9

Swami Sukhabodhananda
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One youngster comes to me very depressed and asks this question "Why is God creating so many difficulties for us? How to handle stress?" I tell this youngster to reflect on this beautiful story:

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 10

I really don't think anyone hates you so much want you dead. Sound like you are very depressed and maybe feel some guilt about your actions. Please seek some good profession advice soon as you need help badly. I love you and remember God loves you too.