is it possible to feel in love without seeing your partner personally, only thru phone and chat?

Answer 1

I think it's possible. Personality is a greater indicator of relationship success than good looks. I think you need to ask yourself whether your partner has been 100% honest about his or herself, appearance, job, financial situation, interests. Would it make a difference to you if your 6'2" skydiving investment banker turned out to be a short, chubby, D&D fanatic with psoriasis and a job at Brger King? Even if these things didn't matter and they've been completely honest, what if there were no physical attraction? Chemistry is an important factor to consider, and can only be tested through actually meeting.

Answer 2

I think it is possible to FEEL in love, which is sort of like pre-falling in love, a positive hunch that you COULD fall in love, with a person you are chatting and talking on the phone with. My husband and I met through yahoo personals when it was still free. We emailed a bit, AIMed a bit, and graduated to the phone for a bit before meeting in person.

I think it's a little bit rare for that loving feeling to stick around after actually meeting, but it worked for us. We've been married a few years and have a baby now.

Answer 3

I have been in this situation, I fell in love with someone like this and boy was it a disaster....chatting and talking on the phone dosen't give you the complete view of this person....

For some people it can be easy to paint a very pretty picture with words....but personality, ethics, actually spending time with this person will give ya the whole picture..... up close and in person makes the difference the BEST advice is take your time......

Mine turned out to be abusive, he ran around on me with other females online..., it lasted three years and I got away finally....

Take your time....learn the person you are involved with, and most of all keep your eyes open....

Not all people are like the guy I was with but use caution...I wish you well! I have met the man of my dreams...and it wasn't online....I'm very happy now.....

Answer 4

I think it's possible to love, but not fall in love, you don't even know if there is chemistry until you are together. Any sex chat line can make you feel what you do over the phone.

Answer 5

Love usually is not primarily a "feeling" It is a liking all the traits of another person enough to want to spend lots of time with them. So you can get to know a person long distance. But remember, they could be telling you falsehoods. , You cannot see their eyes, mirrors to the soul. Their body language is hidden. So it is best to meet them before you let your "feelings" get too involved.

Answer 6

Yes I believe so. Especially because love does not come from a physical action, love comes from the heart. If you feel it in your heart and soul, then it is possible. A persons voice can be a very sensual thing if you think about it.

Answer 7

Yes, totally.

I felt I was in love with my girl friend on the web...it was nearly six months until I met her...and I was right!!

In fact I think it is a good way to meet your soul mate. Superficial things don't get in the way and you can just learn to feel for the person and not what they look like!

Answer 8

I define love through the Biblical version. Even if you're not a Christian, the passage is definitely a good measure.

1Cor 13:4-7-- Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Can you replace "love" in this passage with the name of that person?
ex.: Jane is patient(Toward me), Jane is kind(to me), etc.

Love shouldn't be confused with infatuation, or lust.

It's not impossible, to be in love without seeing them personally, but it's much harder to know if they love you.

Good luck!

Answer 9

in case you have never met one yet another and you have stepped forward liking for one extra by technique of way of communications & chatting, it might desire to ok be love. the subject is that the reliable emotions of lacking somebody might get you to be very related to somebody in spite of in case you have wide-spread somebody ok until now the separation. it is proper even to the circumstances the place residing mutually people improve disliking for one extra. extremely that as quickly as we are mutually we attempt to confirm what's lacking in the different person and extremely paradoxically, whilst the comparable person is out of sight, we attempt to locate what became there interior the guy. properly it fairly is human nature & expectancies... on your case, you have gotten stepped forward liking or perhaps emotions of love for one extra by technique of speaking however the actual element may be - in case you compromise directly to stay mutually by technique of way of marriage or long term era relationships, because of the fact the case could be with your us of a or community - staying mutually. You 'be attentive to' purely a factor of the widespread character of one yet another and you will possibly come be attentive to even better than that as quickly as you reside togethere. So, it might e extra effective to fulfill & be attentive to a minimum of one yet another until now you end anyhow. of direction, in case you 2 have been suited and easy, there is not any risk, in besides in attempting this. in any different case additionally, you will possibly have the skill to settle on, no remember if that is erroneous way around. So, sturdy success.

Answer 10

u can feel love, but u won't really know it is love till u need and get to know that person personally. we have this illusion about love, and sometimes we can talk to someone and feel like there is some connection but as for really being in love, no i think u have to get to know someone.