i love my boyfriend that is okay but we never sex before that time. he begins to want to sex with me even i am in monthly period. he makes love with me without condom play my monthly period. i am very worried because of monthly period he plays. he is married he is not my own husband.
he may respect and wait until i finsih my mp then begs me to make love if i accept or reject that is better than quickly do it to me he does not know when i get mp.
i am afraid if i get aids and hiv from him and it can get pregnant..........
what will i tell? i tell him anymore be with me because he is disrespectful man.......... he said never leave me..................
2007-01-08 23:40:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
well i am sorry for saying this but you made the BIGGEST mistake in your life ! you have a relation ship with a person who is married !! well thats wrong and you know that .. if i was in your place i would just leave the guy ! i wouldn't stay with him because he is married and that is the main point just leave the guy and find a better guy that would really be faithful for you so don't waste your life on a person that is just taking advantage of you
2007-01-09 00:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you do have a problem Firstly as a nurse if he is not practicing safe sex there is the STD factor {sexually transmitted deseases} secondly if you are married you are playing with fire and you might get burnt {pregnant or worse } thirdly it sounds like he is only using you for sex !!!
j,m not one for monthly periods because there also can be risks!!! Love has nothing to do with it {sorry but true }
i,m would have to agree with other answers Tell him to leave you alone and never have anything to do with you ever again !!!
just some friendly advice
cowboy 5
2007-01-09 08:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by cowboy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl please get out of that situationn and just move the hell on please. if this man is married trust me you are not the only one he is sleeping with hun. you will get HIV or get pregnant if you keep this up. HIV is one of the biggest killers in the US right now. and Washington DC has the highest rate just for your info. dont let this man ruin your life...better yet kill you with some disease. i would let him be and tell his wife before she gets something from him by another woman. if he isnt using a condom with you that is your fault for allowing that to happen...look hun i doubt he is using a condom with his wife either and thats gross hun...please leave and protect yourself in the future...go get tested as well asap!
2007-01-09 08:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Melle Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief girl...he is married? He does not love you and he doesn't see you as a person. you are an object to him in the worst way. he says that he loves you but he only sees you as an object of play. you need to dump him. he doesn't care for you if he is not willing to wear a condom.
2007-01-09 08:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lady, you having fun with a married man. are this world running out of bachelors. Dont u have any dignity. Just leave him for your own good. Dont let people call u B...H.Think about his wife.
2007-01-09 08:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by amadeus_denis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is only thinking of himself. He has no respect for a woman's feelings or her body. A real man would.
2007-01-09 07:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell his wife & i'd tell him never contact you ever again. I really think that he is a disrespectful person & if you stick around you will follow suit....
Tell his wife. She has the right to know!
2007-01-09 08:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Realness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How very very sad...you need to leave this man & look after yourself. Don't put up with this for a minute more.
2007-01-09 07:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by babyblues_752001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is first thing you should do girl and the rest will follow: RESPECT YOURSELF BEING A PERSON. you are allowing a man to do whatever he wants to you because you dont respect yourself.
2007-01-09 09:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.That is the only thing you can do.Leave him or sacrifice your happiness for your whole life.I say go find yourself another man.This one is utterly despicable.
2007-01-09 07:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kenneth S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋