You mean personality trait. A person's personality is complex and mixed. Each person has different amounts of traits that make him unique. Of the traits I would value the most...honesty, understanding, responsibility, trustworthiness, loving and giving, and the ability to laugh at himself would all be essential.
Just remember that we can not ever change another person. The only person we have control over (whom we can change) is ourselves. So if a man doesn't have the traits you want to have in a mate, he may never have them. Any changes he makes, can only be permanent if he makes them for himself.
Love is not a be-all and cure-all. It does not fix the problems in life. In fact, it can and will, make them more difficult. So if there is something about a guy you just can not stand, then accept the fact that you were not meant to be with that guy, and move on.
2007-01-08 23:47:18
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answered by Anastasia 5
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When searching for life partner, the first thing is looks, they should be attracted to you. This happens everywhere in nature. Once the initial attraction is over then comes the time to impress the opposite party to make them feel you have more depth than appears. For this you must have a dashing personality and the correct attitude. Then comes the mating period and the settling period when you are required to be loving, caring, responsible, understanding and trustworthy. The most important I feel is loving or 'love', which is nearly the sum of all the above.
2007-01-08 23:41:41
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answered by wizard of the East 7
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I beleive that the personality is the most important thing a person has. I think all those ones you have stated are a bases of a true relationship. Communication is also very important.
People make the mistake time and time again falling for the wrong person, never looking for those qualities and judging a book by its cover.
I hope you find the right partner!
2007-01-09 00:02:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, personality is very important in your search for a good and compatible life partner. All the attributes you have listed are very very important. However, both the sides need to have these attributes. Only then,you would move over to the other very important attritubes and they are: compatibility, consistency, and compassion.
2007-01-08 23:44:41
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answered by braj k 3
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I think it is important (for me) that my partner have all those qualities you mentioned. As for personality, I feel that is a separate category. My man has a very shy and quiet personality. I am more outgoing and adventurous. We compliment each other perfectly. Balance is key.....
2007-01-08 23:41:56
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answered by Anonymous
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All of the above are important and one leads to the other.. if one is loving, they will be caring, trustworthy respectfull etc.
2007-01-08 23:57:19
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answered by aasweet 3
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Only you can answer that question. What personality is right for some one else, may drive you bonkers in the long run. Do pros and cons of each one and decide which personality you can not live without.
2007-01-08 23:39:00
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answered by daleraem 1
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He should be caring..loving...of course trustworthy and most important is he should know how to comunicate which is really very rare to find ..:)
2007-01-08 23:40:07
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answered by sweety4live2000 3
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i think all of them are excellent traits and equally important because this will result to a pleasing personality which is most likely to give you higher compatibility level to make the relationship a lasting one....
2007-01-08 23:41:01
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answered by sheikaella 4
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of course if you're going to live to getter you must have some personality aspects in common, and really there is not a right personality, you must find someone who's personality is more similar than you
2007-01-08 23:40:32
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answered by Anonymous
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