I told my b/friend last nite that i have found the mails he has been sendin his ex, he apologised for it and said that he loves me and wants to be with me.God knows I want to move on as this is not the first time, He is my first ever b/friend and we have been togetha for a year and a month so is hard to let go, how can I make him suffer to see that what he is doing is wrong, he said he is ONLy flirtin with his ex...which is also wrong cause he shouldnt be stringing her along if he doesnt like her..WHAT SHOUL I DO guys I need him to learn his lesson without hurting myself.
2007-01-08 23:33:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a cheater. Once a man (or a woman for that matter) has given himself permission to cheat, he will ALWAYS CHEAT.
If he is sending emails, he is also doing other things.
If you value your own self-respect, you would dump him. He doesn't deserve you. Find someone who values you completely, and DOESN'T cheat.
2007-01-09 00:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wish I had learned my lesson after the first couple of times, instead I married the guy. Big mistake he not only did not stop writing, calling and flirting but he ended up having an affair with her so now I am divorced.
My advice is to leave now when things haven't gotten to out of control.
2007-01-08 23:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to teach him a lesson or make him suffer is to leave him.
He may be your first boyfriend, and im sure you love him, but you can do much better.
Ask yourself why he would be flirting and mailing his ex??!
People only do that kind of thing if they are not satisfied with what they already have. He is keeping his options open, and clearly wants to have someone else lusting after him.
Trust me, it will be hard, and it will hurt, but if you leave him you will find a guy that will be dedicated and faithful to you.
Good luck
2007-01-09 00:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you have already made your mind up and want to move on. It is easier said than done but it is taking the step that is generally the hardest.
Be strong and look after yourself first and foremost. You don't deserve someone who messes you around. Good luck and I hope you sort it out really swiftly.
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2007-01-09 00:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to stop yourself hurting anymore is to leave him - yeah you will hurt for a short period of time but it will hurt alot more if you stay with him - he shouldn't be flirting with any girl and especially not an ex - you should tell him either he stops or it is over. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and at the moment he is not doing that - good luck
2007-01-08 23:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remind him she is an ex for a reason, Tell him shape up or ship out. Just because he is your first boyfriend dosen't mean you have to put up with this sort of thing, i myself would get out of it, they are plenty of other people out there that would treat you with respect and not play with your emotions like that. He sounds like he isn't depenable, or honest. I don't know how old you nor him are, but it still isn't a good situation to be in if he isn't giving you the attention you deserve, sounds like a player to me.
2007-01-08 23:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunni if your asking this question you know the answer, i know it hurts, 1st love always does the worst, but who wants a guy who flirts with his ex all the time stringing her along! Its not fair on you or her! Be strong love and finish it, you so deserve someone who will love you and be 100% faithful, anything less is unacceptable. xx
2007-01-08 23:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by pinkjessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him stop all contact, itll be dead hard but yno, stop him in his tracks theres a chance he goes off with the ex, but getting no reson from u will bug him so much, u see him on the street ignore him, he runs up beging for u to talk to him ignore till hes too annoying and his real quiet so only he can hear " **** off your embarrsing me" and keep like that his ego will take a mega nose dive.
when i twas pretty sure one of my exs was palying around behind my back i slept with this gyu he hated, totally humiliated him!
2007-01-08 23:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-08 23:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, I let mine go after 26 years together - because I couldn't bear thinking that the next 26 years might be the same. Don't make him suffer - look after yourself. You deserve better and better is out there.
2007-01-09 00:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋