Can someone help me sort out my feelings plsssss???

Question

well he's in the same class as me and is currently sitting right beside me and we are pretty good friends,we flirt quite a lot,i don't know but just recently,i caught him staring at me quite a lot,he was sitting beside me so occasionally,he'll just turn and look at me and then turn back again,and there was once when i told him i wanted to go catch a movie,he said "ok,ask me along!" i mean why can't HE ask me instead of having me to ask him to the movies??and he's got this habit of calling my name and then flashing me that wide grin of his and i was telling one of my pal that a guy asked me out but not sure if i shd go & when he heard that,he didn't utter a single word i got this feeling that he fancies me but then again,he tells me about the girls he likes and using his cell in class doing god knows what,perhaps texting other girls?i don know how i'm feeling right now no romantic feelings but i feel weird,confused i think,can someone help me sort it out pls?

and in the past when we were really close,he'll always wait for me when we go for lectures but now,he saw that i got closer with another guy,he no longer waits for me and just dashed out of the class with his friend,he doesn't look happy seeing that i'm closer to another guy..

Answer 1

There are so many elements in your relationship, it's hard to see what he's really feeling. The only true way to find out is to ask him! I know it's scary, but do you really want to feel weird and confused? This could turn out to be something special. Why don't you try asking his opinion on the guy who asked you out, see what his reaction is! Also you can casually ask him what he's doing when he is on his cell phone. And ask yourself this..do YOU have romantic feelings for him? Would you like to be with him? If you don't have any romantic feelings for him then why bother feeling so weird and confused? Be brave and talk to him about it, question him. Find out the truth! Good luck with everything.

Answer 2

my first ? Is how old are you ? Since you are old enough to type on the computer I think you are old enough to ask him how he feels. If you do or don't like him in the same way once he answers you then be honest and tell him what you want and how you feel , don't yell or scream or be to forward but if he says he likes you and you like him then tell him, or let him know you don't have the same feelings but don't wan to lose your friendship[ it sounds to be mean that you do like him but just don't want to admit it.either way talk to him..

Or you could try this if you think that is to much. this may be the easiest thing to do.. Tell him you are going to the movies ( get your parents permission first and tell them you are going to see if he can come , get an ok from them first)see if he will come take it from there. See what happens.

Answer 3

Be point blank with him and tell him how you are feeling. He sounds jealous of the other guys, so he just may be havng a hard time sorting it out too. Before you take the next step though, if you two are close, will a relationship kill the friendship and is it worth it?

Answer 4

Sounds like u both like eachother n r just bein proud or Watever otherise u wdnt be noticing him bein unhappy wen u r close to someone else. So maybe u should hav a real talk with him n c where it leads u.. All d best

Answer 5

Been there done that and realised with experience I was an idiot. He is really interested in you but really scared of rejection. You will have to make the first steps with this guy, but he's well on the way to falling in love with you!

Answer 6

it sounds like he does like you but is a bit shy in case you turn him down.your best bet is to talk to him and find out how you both feel.no matter how you fell if he is your friend then he should still be there for you.good luck i hope it works out ok.
p.s there nothing wrong with girls making the 1st move..this isnt the 60s.