the guy ive been seeing for over a month now, - I really like him and whenever im with him I can tell he likes me too and he tells he me does, but when I dont see him he tells me on the phone or over the internet that he is confused about whether he likes me..
I've met up with him since then and I got really upset when i was with him because I found it hard to believe he likes me.
Ever since he said he was confused i've been paranoid, and get easily upset over thinking about him even though we havent had a fight.
i dont know what i should be doing
2007-01-08 22:34:04 · 17 answers · asked by alicemustlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is always the Best Policy... Ask him why or what is making him confused... It sounds like he is playing a game to see what he will get in return!
2007-01-08 22:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by familyman4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must you have an answer in words??? Sometimes guys do better showing you than telling you.
Looks like you wanna MAKE him, ARGUE him or SCARE him.
Back off! just be friends and let him happen if HE wants to. No need to be paranoid. Find things to do hat you like. Clean your room .(OK Not FUN) I meant to say hang out with your friends, get your fav. ice cream, put some of your pictures in your photo albulm. Buy a photo albulm, have a PARTY IN YOUR PAJAMAS. Allways have yourself something to do. That way, you won't have space to be paraniod. SMILE!!
I did what you are doing before and the guy RAN AWAY QUICK. Well I figured it out, that I really didn't need an answerRIGHT NOW, MY WAY, WHAT I WANTED HIM TO SAY, and I called and got him back. Never asked that again.
Later, he started telling ME!
2007-01-09 06:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r a preteen or teenage in about 5yrs (which will seem like 4ever) u will 4get all about this dude. Worry more about your school work because relationships at your young tender age come and go. good luck anyway
2007-01-09 06:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by KB48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shd get lost and clear his mind first.. sounds like a looser to me.. i mean how does one tell some one he is confused abt whether he likes them or not.. very annoyn.. nowonder u r upset. So better for him to get lost
2007-01-09 06:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it over with him, dear...no need to get so paranoid over a guy! it's not worth losing precious mind...and with guys like that, he might just be playing with you or not so ready... break off with him...play safe, rather than rush head-on...maybe, with that time apart, he can finally set his priorities and descisions right...if it's not him, then look for other guys deserving of you...from your pic, you may not have to wait so long : )
2007-01-09 06:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by chinggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his priorities are in the wrong ,sugar.
He should be making flour or baking bread, he might be good at that, but he definitely is bad at relations.
2007-01-09 06:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is... some people are not cut out for relationships...
myself personally i can REALLY like a guy when i'm with him... but when i am apart i seem to really not like him.. and usually end up breaking up with him...and then when i spend time with him.. i want him again..
i don't know what it is... but.. maybe he is a commitment phobe?
2007-01-09 07:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not emotioanlly mature , failng to deal with your own feelings.
Tell him
" Watch closely me now , your confusion gives me silly paranoid . I dont like this. Do you like this? If not why do you act like this?"
2007-01-09 06:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you have to be in front of him. Don't see him for awhile and see if he still likes you. That will be the real test.
2007-01-09 06:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! He obviously doesn't appreciate that he could have you all to himself. ps. i think you'll find there is someone else in his life as well as you, hence the confusion.
2007-01-09 06:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋