Are there any warning signs that you can spot to alert you to the fact that a guy is potentially a player? Does the fact that a male has a substantial amount of female friends necessarily indicate he's a player?
2007-01-08 22:23:31 · 9 answers · asked by Yaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes defenitely...players talk too much.
Real people may say few personal things and want to do things instead of talking all the time trying to convince you that they are about something.
Players are trying to win your soul to defeat you and get you in bed whereas normal dates and such dont' like me:):)
2007-01-08 22:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
personaly, I'd say that no, there is no way to tell. At least not unless you know a few mutual friends that you can ask about him.
The fact that he has a large amount of female friends should probably point to the fact that he isn't a player. If he was the kind of guy that was goibng around promising girls the world and then kicking them to the curb as soon as he got what he wanted, he'd probably not have too many female friends.
2007-01-08 22:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Have2Laugh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having lots of female friends is not an indication him as a player. Infact most of the guys who has good female friends are not player because their female friends shares them stories about men, likes and dislikes,etc so they tend to understand more about female thing.
I can tell a player is someone who talks too much... More on words and less actions. Full of false promises...
2007-01-08 23:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by jennylyn p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always but be careful with the female friends, he may just prefer female company but he may also be insecure and want to find out if there's a possibility you could be interested before he approaches you but on the other hand if he seems too sure of himself watch how he treats other woman when he thinks your not watching. Players will always give themselves away.
2007-01-08 22:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by pinkjessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, i promise you there is no absolute sure way short of him stating he is and having proof (proof, not rumors) of it. having many female friends isnt an indication of a guy being a 'player', but is an indication that he socializes with the opposite sex extra. some POSSIBLE indications might be if you know many girls that have dated him, and most or all for short amounts of time. also, if he seems to good to be true, he MAY be ONLY trying to impress you and get somewhere fast, rather than being himself and trying to just be close to you/get to know you. if you take your time on things, and he doesnt want to stick around, than he is likely more interested in getting you to bed than in having a relationship, but just because he says he wants to take it slow, doesnt mean he does, only if he acually takes it slow. hope this might help a little.
2007-01-08 22:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by H0NEY~BEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no jus cause they fancy him does,nt mean he fancies them u will know he is a player wen ur out n about jus by the way he looks n acts around other people not even jus women if he is a genuine nice guy they should be no pretence so take him for ameal then clubbing tke it from there GL:-)x
2007-01-08 22:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by blonde286021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has female friends it means hes weird doesnt mean hes a player. if hes collecting phone numbers then be suspicious.
2007-01-08 22:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if he leaves when you say you,d just like to talk to him at first.
2007-01-08 22:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk u just can, least i can, no doubt'bout that!
maybe u should hire me.
i'll let u know!
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2007-01-08 22:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Cr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋