he said he like me a lot, he said he found soemthing different on me, he said he is attracted to me.... but he has a gf.... and he said to me you know it is really nice to have sexual touching or even sex after you have been with the same woman for a long time.... he cares about me, and be a good friends, and we talk about everything......but what he said....to have something new from me after been with his own gf for a long time... made me feel he is just using my feelings and want to use me as a ******* boddy.
2007-01-08 22:22:29 · 8 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy obviously doesn't understand the mental state and the emotional state of women or at least he has no respect for them, if all he wants from you is to be a toy in the bed and he's just been using your friendship as a way to manoeuvre his way into your knickers... he's not treating you with any kind of respect and he doesn't deserve to have such a lovely girl like you by his side.
What on earth is his girlfriend thinking to still be dating him?
2007-01-08 22:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I assume you mean he wants you as an F-buddy but that is ridiculous for him to say that it's nice to be with someone else after you've been with the same woman for a while. That's not what relationships are about. If he wants to experience another woman, he needs to break up with the other one first. You cannot be used if you don't allow yourself to be.
2007-01-08 22:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he just wants a bit of variation. Which suggests he will be looking for it else where soon. If he isn't prepared to leave his girlfriend then he isn't prepared to commit to you. if he is looking for a change tell him to go on a holiday and leave you alone.
2007-01-08 22:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by kllr.queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is using you for sex & he is also lying to his girlfriend - why do you want to be with this prat?
2007-01-08 22:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mishell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if his g/f would like to join in on some of the "new things" he wants , bet that will change his tune !!
2007-01-08 22:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him from ur lis of friends.. Period
2007-01-08 22:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably. So whats the problem
2007-01-08 22:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Airtight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello he want to make love with you only
2007-01-08 23:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ahmad E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋