2007-01-08 21:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by DINESH KUMBHAR 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
Dinesh, I am sorry to hear that your father passed away in December 2004 - 2 years and 1 month ago.
...Most Hindu Indians [your name implies that you are one !] remain in mourning for 12 months only, after which they are fully free to carry on with pursuing their own personal needs - including marriage.
Even this 12-month period is NOT rated as a must - as the religious final rites ['shraardh'] are all completed on the 13th, 21st, or latest the 41st day after a person's demise.
...After that, the Hindu codes of conduct only demand that the heirs of a dead person should offer 'pinda' ['soul food'] once a year, on the concerned 'thithi' [death anniversary].
I have personally come across cases of very orthodox Brahmin boys/girls getting married soon after the final rites ['shraardh'] are over - as it was the ardent wish of the dead person, to see that the boy, or girl, gets married soon.
...You are completely at liberty now, to marry in peace : The full blessings of your father's soul will be with you, for having waited for 2 full years before marrying.
2007-01-08 22:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Indychen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorrey your father was passed awy. He had finished his time on the earth as God gave him. Now he willbe in some life ? But you pray to god that thou will give his soul piece thats all. You should think on your life and go ahed wheather it amarrage or any other problems. ok . Bhagvan tera bhalakare Bharat
2007-01-12 01:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by bharat c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question did not made any sense of all,what are you trying to say?.
2007-01-09 09:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mind of this matter,your father will be understood and happy for your married,hope you and your spouce happy forever.
2007-01-08 23:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by victor98_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this question is complete and total nonsense. Go back and try again.
2007-01-08 22:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to ask an actual question? you make no sense whatsoever
2007-01-08 22:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
And I thought it was me reading sideways,why question did not make sense.
2007-01-08 22:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by mark j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't understand the question...
2007-01-09 01:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What?
2007-01-09 11:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Evolu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋