whats the best way of telling your mum you are moving out without upsetting her too much???
2007-01-08 21:52:47 · 14 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
want to move in with my boyfriend
2007-01-08 22:05:58 · update #1
tell her out right she will more than likely be over the moon with the news
2007-01-08 21:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being very upfront and honest with her. By telling her what your plans are and how you & your bf and plan to support yourselves. Don't just blurt it out in conversation. Ask to talk to her and tell her it is important to you that she understand why you are doing this.
I am hoping you are an adult (at least 18) and are planning to further your education. I am hoping that you do have a plan for your life that you intend to follow.
I am sorry to say but my take on life is that we get to make some really huge decisions when we are honestly too young to make them. These decisions end up shaping the course our live takes...many times you will not be able to turn around and go back to square one..you will have to live with your decision and all it's consequences.
Be careful, be safe, and live your life fully.
2007-01-09 18:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by jan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age. If you are old enought o head off to university it should not be a problem. If you are younger I would hang on a bit anyway. Otherwise just make sure you have a good job and your fianances worked out and them just tell her that you have found a place of your own and will be moving out on ---------. take her out for Sunday luch the week after mving out to soften the blow. oh and when you say moving out o assume that means you willm not be taking your washing/ironing back or expecting to drop in a sponge for meals or money when you are broke?
2007-01-09 06:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to lunch and sit down and tell her
make sure you have all the answers ready
make sure you can back them up
tell her you found a place and can afford it ... show it to her take her there and ask her help on decorating it or painting
tell her its not too far from home and that its not like you wont be there for dinner 2 or 3 nights a week lolol
2007-01-09 05:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight, i doubt there is ever a easy way. Just give lots of reassurance.
Tell you can meet up for a coffee and have a chat on the phone.
Good Luck.
2007-01-09 05:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just say look mum i need some space so ive found myself a flat and im moving out but ill come back and see you every day
2007-01-09 08:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by samantha o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk through your mum nicely saying that u r ready 2 move out im sure she will understand!
2007-01-10 16:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by cheekyhoney2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a mum and when my son who is 20 tells me his moving out IL be very happy just tell your mum she will be fine believe me
2007-01-09 06:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by lorraine x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about their feelings just move out as long as your over 16. and your boyfriend isnt a cradle snatcher or a creep. make sure you have a back-up plan if it falls through and you have another place to move into. when i was a young an my mom constantly told me "this isnt your house when under my roof you do as i say" shes regretting telling me that now she barely sees me now. you have to please yourself.
2007-01-09 06:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain that you and ur byfriend are taking the next stage in ur relationship and that you will visit her regular and you stil love her.
2007-01-09 11:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by RACHEL FEV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋