being married for four years, i have lived a hounted life, i cant love my wife, every time i think of my ex- she is married for one year, weve been communicating through. even though she betrayed our love, i feels that i could have given her a second chance, she loves me nd i do, am confused on what i should do to be happy and to get the best love and in return to offer the best of my heart
2007-01-08 21:47:46 · 5 answers · asked by shi-kibe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater, always a cheater. I assume that when you say that she "betrayed your love" that she cheated ON you, now she is willing to cheat WITH you. It's a cycle that will keep happening. Don't go there. You have a wife now. Focus on making that relationship work or end it.
2007-01-08 21:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like your wife and your ex's husband have the bad end of the deal. One: you should follow what makes you happy. Two: Neither one, your wife or your ex's husband, should be treated like this and they deserve to know the truth. It will hurt, but it is for the best for everyone in the situation. Three: Think about what you really want and what are your true feelings are. Could this just be a recent event of feelings because you and your wife have been together for four years? Or have these feelings always been there. Either way, if you care at least a bit for your wife she deserves to know and choose her path in life with or without you.
2007-01-08 22:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mexybabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring the undeniable fact that i don't even understand what your question is and would fairly understand your concern, i'm going to allow you realize that marrying on account which you elect to forget approximately your ex is a silly undertaking to do. Now, you have have been given to elect between divorce or accepting which you foolishly married, yet you married whether. additionally, why could you elect to forget approximately your ex? Your ex had a extensive section on your existence and has formed who you're at the instant. there is not something incorrect with remembering your ex in simple terms don't get too caught up interior the fable.
2016-10-30 10:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u not happy with ur wife. i think there is only flactuation between u and ur ex. now u have been married for 4 years and thinking to leave ur wife for the girl who betrayed u first.
i think u r going to make a big mistake. i think that ur ex didn't get love from her husband, that she supposed to get. thats what she is looking in others.just think if she can leave her husband for u then she can leave u for other as as well. so i'll say try to love ur wife and forget about others.
2007-01-08 21:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by stranger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be honest with urself the 1st thing u need to do is get out of ur current relationship and stop talking to ur ex then find someone u really love otherwise remember if they can do it with u they will do it to u
2007-01-08 21:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋