ok after dumping my boyfriend a few weeks ago Ive been doing fine but recently have come into contact with a guy that I really like - so far we've had a few phone conversations and Im after getting quite fond of him! I finally get to meet him this week to discuss business plans so my question is (1) what should I wear - I dont want to appear over dressed for an evening coffee - but do want him to think phowar - and (2) how would you recommend I go about flirting with him without being over obvious. Im 99% sure he doesnt have a girlfriend. Im really out of practice when it comes to this stuff but I really like him - please help!
2007-01-08 21:31:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
different guys like different girls, but in general, a straight guy will like a feminine looking girl.
but if you are going to talk business, then stick to business. and then ask him out, AFTER business. then you can wear something special.
nice guys dont really flirt. if they like you they go quiet. if he is the aggressive type then you would already know if he is interested in you or not, right?
2007-01-08 21:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, where are you meeting him? dress accordingly to suit the venue, but not too OTT. dont go mad on the flirting, just be yourself, and relax. if your over stressing about whether or not he likes you then that'll show through. chances are, if hes organised this evening coffee to discuss business, then theres already a spark there.
so to answer your questions, (1) skirt/trousers and a top/blouse, to appear smart but understated, and (2) just relax and treat him as a friend, smile and be yourself. this should let him see you in a good light and hopefully things will happen.
good luck and have a nice time
2007-01-08 21:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by big ric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something that shows off your best assets, cover the rest up and dont forget a hint of perfume. Something smart but casual.You dont need to go over the top flirting because you dont want to appear to keen theres nothing more of a turn off. Maintain eye contact for a second to long, lightly touch his arm occasionally as you talk and laugh at his jokes. Ask him about himself LOADS and be interested in what he tells you, men like talking about themselves! Watch the signals so you dont make a fool of yourself, if you think hes keen then ask him out casually you might regret it if you dont! Be yourself, it sounds like you already have a spark anyhow, good luck!
2007-01-08 22:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work for a large bank and i am a guy so i know what the story is with men in the office.
we all like to be praised even when we know were "slow" we just like the fact that u think were smart lol i swear it works!!
If you touch him make it look like it was by mistake and then look at him then look away very fast. you may not know but our heart rate has shot up when you women do that.
sexy talk is a non runner it makes u look like a fool!! not just u but most women when its business related plus you dont want him to think your a slag!
Also be confident yet dont make out you have somewhere more important to be that back fires. Dont give to much away but wear your hair down and show your womanly side. good luck......
2007-01-08 22:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by blondestring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, You should be thinking about building a good sold ed friendship with this guy. Men & women make this misake all the time. By rushing into a sexual relationship with someone. Please think first. Is this guy someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. Or is he just someone I want to have sex with and see where that will take us. Everyone is fooled on the first date. Because men & women really won't show you the real person in side of them until your heart is hooked. Take your time. But in any case wear dark blue & white. It show's a sense of power, sexy.
2007-01-08 21:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Business plans and flirt? Ermmm......don't poop and eat at the same place.
If a man did this and it went bad then its called sexual harrasment. Since you're a woman then you probably won't get sued but it could end up with you having a reputation for being a **** or sleeping around to get work done.
2007-01-08 21:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i don't know about the flirting, but show up in something nice. not a cocktail dress, but maybe something you would wear when going to a semi formal restaurant.
2007-01-08 21:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont flirt with him just tell him straight, chances are he'll sleep in and miss your flirtations. men arent too good at reading women sometimes.
2007-01-08 22:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, if he likes you, he'll let you know...
Don't know how long you were with your ex boyfriend for but I don't think I could be dating so quickly!
2007-01-08 22:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress comfortably, jeans and a sexy t-shirt, and be friendly and chatty, and let him make a move, as a man thats his place
2007-01-08 21:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by king of spain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋