now i am sick of my boy friend, he do lot of weird things whith me, yesterday night he bring his cat on bed and i started weeping, tell me what should i do
2007-01-08 21:24:08 · 10 answers · asked by dvd 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You should leave this guy immediately. If you feel the way you do, you should not stay. Ask for forgiveness, god will understand. Do it today!!!
2007-01-08 21:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you do that is a sin can be forgiven by God. God forgives all sins when asked in the name of our Savior Jesus Christ. Yes it is a sin that you had to prove to yourself that you loved this character then found out you didn't. God will forgive, and do not enter into matrimony the same way. Any person, you would choose, must be worthy of the position of spouse. Make sure before you leap next time.
2007-01-09 05:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a dog, put him on the bed and that will solve the cat problem. Did he force you to place your hand on the Bible and swear that you would never leave him or was that your idea? I don't think you "married" him by the full rites of your church or faith-system so don't worry about it. Dump the guy and tell him to take his flea-bitten cat with him.
2007-01-09 05:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your guilt which makes you feel miserable. You can pray again on the bible for forgiven and promises yourself not to repeat such acts. Do not make promises on the Bible.
Dump him since he only makes you isck and miserable. Make a real decision.
2007-01-09 05:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a confession, it's a promise. You are bound by that promise so if you do leave him then you're guilty of not fulfilling that promise. Otherwise you're free to go, God is forgiving and his grace is sufficient to all of us so don't worry he won't strike you dead in future don't make promises you can't keep, God is not mocked.
2007-01-09 05:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couple of things
if you are believer of bible
then it clearly says not make any sex with whom is not your hubby. and you are in relation with him even without bond of marriage. so first see this bigger sin.
also i feel that if that promise on bible was by you, then i will see it in different context, if it was forced by your boy friend then you are not bound to deal with forced stuff.
if you are hanged then do what is already posted i.e take a dog to deal with cat loll..
2007-01-09 05:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by Shak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend, it is not wise to make promises like that. I do not know who you made the promise to, but in effect, you lied. All you have to do is ask Jesus to forgive you for lying and He will.
And leave your boyfriend!
Jesus loves you and cares for you so much.
2007-01-09 05:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by ccc4jesus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, and don't make promises on the Bible if it is going to cause you to feel this much guilt.
2007-01-09 05:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up....people vow in a church that they will never leave each other too..in front of a minister and thier loved ones!...so if they break up then so can you.....just pray for forgiveness and i'm sure you will be forgiven.
2007-01-09 05:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong to stay with him if you do not respect or even like him any more. God would not want you to do that to yourself.
2007-01-09 05:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋