i have been goin out wit my bf for 3 years, since i was 16. Lately i have been bored finding less to do and less enjoyment wen i spend time with him. since ive been goin out wit him hes changed a lot . i know i love him but do i need some time away from him to see other people or is this just a patch that all couples go thru?
2007-01-08 20:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by retro_shine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
explore i guess. i felt the same way when i was with my ex bf of 3 years, i couldnt end it so he did and though it breaks my heart i know it would be good to see what else is out there and if by chance we meet again i know its meant to be. So yeah go with the flow and see where it brings you. 3 years is a long time and plus your still young.
2007-01-08 20:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by LT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agreed. You just need to see other people as youre young and probably havent seen others other than your bf. If you really love him deep down and feel he is Mr. Right at this right moment, you should consider marrying him. If not dump and get a new bf after some time of course(or just date around with a lot of guys which is probably the better idea as it seems you want the excitement that a sexy guy like me can bring.
2007-01-09 04:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cules 4 life: ASHKON IS BACK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not a patch that all couples go through. You have matured tremendously since you were 16. Believe me, you need more than a break.You need to terminate this relationship and seek a more mature, and understanding relationship with a more compatible & deeper person.
Feeling a responsiblitity to holding on to an immature relationship is a path to disaster.
2007-01-09 04:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its totally normal. It means you need to move on before something bad happens. You can end it now while its on the low or you can wait unitl you have a huge falling out. If you guys break up its possible that you will get back together if you love each other still
2007-01-09 04:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your just comfortable with him, which happens to all relationships. Try doing diferent things together to spice it up or cut back on how much u c him for a bit and c if that helps
2007-01-09 04:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a patch that people who hooked up at too young an age go through, and it indicates that you have moved on with your life.
2007-01-09 04:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaa dont call it break up....call it time out. Talked over with him...maybe you dont even need a time out, try new things, new places, new activities, start going out with friends instead of u 2 alone.
2007-01-09 04:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Happy hippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋